rebmalove Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 with someone else when ure bored and not with your boyfriend? I have been lately. What are your thoughts on this? I feel so bored when were not together, and not only that when we talk on the phone we don't say much... what should I do? or rather would u do?
gopher Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 I'd do what I'm doing...find hobbies you like, go out with your friends....focus on things you like to do. I wouldn't rely on someone else to take away your boredom.
Charles1978 Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 This is why the best relationships are between two people with their own active lives that just mesh naturally. You should want to include them in your daily routine. If that happens, there really is no "down time". But yes, you should do other things with friends when they aren't around... but you should have been doing that before you met the guy... see what I'm saying?
peteyj Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 I never get this 'bored' theory. It seems too many people have no lives regardless if they are 15 or 45. People need to actually have lives instead of pretending they have on...That way boredom is rarely an issue since you actually have a busy schedule.
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