Viking Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 So, I got this girl's number a few days ago and have been texting with her for the past few days (didn't yesterday, didn't want to end up a text buddy). I've talked to her on the phone once (on Sunday, today is Thursday). She said that she wanted to maybe get together and go for coffee and that she was going to let me know when on Thursday would work. It turns out that I had to cancel due to a lot of homework, so I told her that. Anyways, I pointed out that I could do something Friday before 4PM as that is when I start work, but I think she has school and she said that she wasn't able to do anything until after 11PM tonight. So I offered air hockey and beer. She's got a midterm tomorrow at 10AM and so she declined (understandable). I then sent her a message saying I could meet up after lacrosse practice on Friday for air hockey and beer. Mind you, we've been talking for a while now and she seems interested, but keeping her distance it seems as she has been less than accommodating in her availability. Do I play it cool and just figure that we'll work it out? I don't want to take too long as she might eventually lose interest, or I might give up due to her being so difficult. What should I do? I don't want to just keep texting. We had a good three hour session the other night where she described her ideal day and made some very suggestive (not sexual, but that she wants to date seriously) remarks about her day. Thanks.
MSUE Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 It looks like its just challenging cause of both your schedules to find a time that works for you guys...Don't be too pushy but don't give uo...she told you shes interested in dating seriously right?
Author Viking Posted January 31, 2009 Author Posted January 31, 2009 Well, our schedules might not be conducive to us meeting, so that is definitely a possibility. However, I think I may have been pushing this a little too hard and fast. I told her I wanted to meet up really shortly after I got her number. I think it would be best if I talk to her on the phone and let her get to know me a little better. Anyways, why would she NOT email back after two days?
Still Trying Posted January 31, 2009 Posted January 31, 2009 Well, our schedules might not be conducive to us meeting, so that is definitely a possibility. However, I think I may have been pushing this a little too hard and fast. I told her I wanted to meet up really shortly after I got her number. I think it would be best if I talk to her on the phone and let her get to know me a little better. Anyways, why would she NOT email back after two days? You're obviously both extremely busy. Give her a bit of time but don't dwell on her. maybe let her make the next move as far as communication is concerned?
Author Viking Posted February 1, 2009 Author Posted February 1, 2009 You're obviously both extremely busy. Give her a bit of time but don't dwell on her. maybe let her make the next move as far as communication is concerned? Well, I texted her this evening before I saw this... I usually can find time to do ANYTHING. I find it hard to believe that she's too busy to do something...maybe that's just me though. Anyways, what I sent was something to the effect of, "Glad your test went well. Sorry if I seemed really pushy as I just got excited talking to you. I understand that you're busy as am I. Hope I answered [your] questions well." She replied "U have! No worries! I've just been way busy". So, it seems that that is the case where we're both really busy and it sucks because I think she sounds like a really neat girl. I assume the "no worries!" part is in regards to sounding pushy? I guess since she read my email, she might send a response, but I will wait a while before I contact her again. I was thinking I would ask her what she's looking for as far as a relationship goes as it'd be nice to know if I'm wasting my time.
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