lonetiger Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 it's really super cool tht there is a site where each of us can just spill our guts to complete strangers on how much we are hurting because of a relationship gone bad! Though I have been through many relationships in my life, this is the first time ever I joined a forum where I could release my frustrations and to recieve helpful input from a third party. I have to sit and think on how beautiful a relationship can be, yet, there are times where it completely hurts...especially a break up. Sometimes we are confused because we don't know exactly what went wrong and end up beating ourself up over things that happened to make the relationship end. We spend days crying and have our minds pace with thoughts of the other person. We end up in a world of confussion where everything is turned upside down. Sometimes we take our hurt out on other people. Sunny days have become grey and gloomy...our hearts are broken and souls are sad... Isn't it funny how love is? We all want someone to love and care about. Sometimes it works and we all know there are the ones that end. How the pain we have felt in the past because of a horrible break up subsides and we are able to move on and begin a new relationship...and sometimes it is like a circle, we get hurt and spend days and weeks in a completely darkened world. I have to give kudo's to this site, for it is here where we can just release the hurt and pain we feel and knowing we are not alone...that others are willing to listen and give advise...sometimes this is the best theropy, just reading and learning from others...
Knight_Ctrl Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 yeah, you're right man. This site is extremely helpful. This is easily the most painful break up I've ever been through, but everyone here has kept me from at least offing myself (maybe I still am, if only a little less direct) but meh. Thats not the point, the point is that it really is great to be able to talk with people that don't know you or your ex personally.
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