serenitylies Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 This guy Im "seeing" already said that he loves me, but we're not even official and I barely see him because he lives in Ohio. Hes planning to move back to NY soon, so Ill be seeing him more often. When he said he loves me, I didnt know what to say. I still dont know what to say. I really like him. I met him in the summer of 08 and we started seeing each other around Christmas/New Years. I know he'll be able to take care of me and he wont do anything purposely to hurt me, but its just that Im scared to love again, especially after what my last boyfriend did to me. He said he's gonna drive me down to Florida and take me the the beach, where the warm water flows; and on the beach hes gonna ask me out officially and promise me that he'll never hurt me. And I love the beach -- it relaxes me and it always seems like the ocean breeze takes away all my problems and stress that linger over my shoulder. We stay on the phone all night long and we even keep the phone on when we've actually fallen asleep. Its like puppy love all over again. And every night, I feel happy. I dont get my nightly nightmares anymore and I dont wake up in the middle of the night for no reason. I dont know if I should go official with him, because he is my friends ex. Help..?
infophreak Posted February 7, 2009 Posted February 7, 2009 Tell him actions speak louder than words, let him know you'll tell him the feelings you've grown have for him once he has been a prince charming for a long time.
Author serenitylies Posted February 14, 2009 Author Posted February 14, 2009 But is it wrong of me to go out with him if hes my friends ex? Well, she no longer speaks to me, but none the less he is her ex and it feels wrong, yet I do really want this. I havent had someone to call boyfriend in awhile and I havent had someone care for me or any of that sort in awhile and itd be nice to be able to feel that again.
DavidH Posted February 14, 2009 Posted February 14, 2009 who cares if hes your friends ex. that sounds like a ton of commitment so early on though!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Might want to tell him that he needs to slow down a whole ton... if you think so that is
sand26 Posted February 14, 2009 Posted February 14, 2009 And every night, I feel happy. I dont get my nightly nightmares anymore and I dont wake up in the middle of the night for no reason. codependency. You need to get healthy before you get involved hon.
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