AnnaLee Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 Good Afternoon Everyone... So I met this guy from a dating website back at the beginning of Decemeber. It was a profile I hasn't checked in ages, but I had just decided to stop pining over a complicated situation. So we swapped a few messages, then began chatting on AOLIM. Nothing overly exciting, but he did ask to meet in person. We only live a few miles apart, so it wasn't that hard. So after the "first date", I found out that he was still pretty hung up on this girl he met over the summer. So I decided I wanted to at the very least continue chatting with him, even if it didn't go anywhere romantically. We've had a few in-depth coversations, and he knows that I like his as more than a friend. But he's so hung-up on this other girl, that he says he doesn't want to hurt me. We've hung out in person a few times, he's been over to my place, too. We've chatted everyday since that first day for at least a few hours. Then he started waking up a little bit early so he could IM me before I went to work to say "good morning." And he stays up late to say "good night." This week his work scheduale changed and he got bumped to 2nd shift. And he's still getting up at 5.30am to say "good morning" to me. And if I'm not awake when he gets on when he gets home, he sends faces. He just got my number last week, and he went out of town to visit some friends this past weekend. And he texted me just to see what I was up to. I guess I just want to know from a 3rd party point of view if this maybe means he's changing his mind about the other girl? Maybe he's realizing that she's a cold-hearted bitch who doesn't give him the time of day. I don't know. Let me know what ya'll think. Thanks!
Illiandra Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 maybe he wants to take things slow for now... do you know if he is still talking to this other girl via texts emails phone calls? hes still hung up on here perhaps hes giving you a yellow flag to take things slow because he is probably just confused...and doesnt know what to do about her and perhaps you? if you let him know that your interested and hes not reciprocating then thats not that great of a sign... theres plenty of other fishes in the sea
You'reasian Posted January 30, 2009 Posted January 30, 2009 Call him. Talk to him about this. Can't hurt, right?
Author AnnaLee Posted January 30, 2009 Author Posted January 30, 2009 so...we had lunch today...he drove 20 minutes to come have lunch with me on my 30 minute lunch break...and he even picked me up at work! (which made an old crush that didn't work out, very, very jealous, which was AWESOME) do"friends" just do that? and my other friends are slackers, or does it mean something? i'm so confused....
Author AnnaLee Posted January 31, 2009 Author Posted January 31, 2009 nobody has anything else to say? jeez. when i came on here last year and said i thought i was in love with a married man, everyone had an opinion. now, i come here looking for advice on a plausible relationship, and i get nothing. whatever.
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