Did i do anything wrong on this relationship

[mopar]

little brifeing on some stuff i didnt add in

 

this is a long distance relationship about 40 min apart

she has one kid that is 2 and is expecting #2 at the end of the summer.

both the kids are her exes.

i told her i would be there for her and the kids.

i told her i wouldnt leaver her.

 

 

 

i have been seeing a female for about 2 month. We got in an arguement monday night. last wednesday she told me she was going to her best friends house (female) to eat pizza she said she call me back but she didnt so i went to bed i woke up the next day txted her to see if she was ok she txted back sayiong she just woke up. I asked her what time she went to be she told me 430 am. i went to work about 1pm to pick my pay check up and do so runing around town. I went home got on myspace i looked at her profile there was a guy who left her a comment that said (U can steal me tonight again) i started to wounder what was going on i didnt want to call and ask her about it i want to see if she would tell me. i got on myspace looked at that guys profile but it was privite and her friends(female) was privite too so i went to face book and either of there profiles where not privite so i look at the guys profile and seen he worked at the pizza place and the other friend worked at a fast food place i didnt want to say thing to her then i want to see if she would tell me. i hate it when i get lied too. saturday night we talked on the phone she told me i could go have a one night stand with a girl. i told her i dont want a one night stand with some other female i want to be commited to this relationship and get to know each other better i figure she wouldnt have a one night stand with someone. i treat her very good i buy all the dinners and help her with fixing her car and helping with her kid. On sunday morning about 530 am she tells me she has had sex with a guy i was very tired and i told her i wouldnt leave her and we will talk later about what happend. i notice on sunday morning i got move on myspace i got put behide the that guy sunday night we got in to an arguement i was just joking about getting moved when i told her. she told me that i have been creeping her out i asked y she told me because i order the same food she does i let her order first always and when she orders food it kinda sound good to eat at the time. i told her it kinda hurt me alittle when u told me u had sex with a guy last week. she told me she was depressed i asked her why didnt u call and talk to me i told her before u can talk to me about anything i am here for her. after that she said her son was up and she didnt have time to deal with this right now. i left her a offline message to call me tomorrow to talk more about this. she call me monday i told her she has been lieing to me about last week i told her about the info i looked up on the two people she got made at me and told me this relationship isnt going to work because that what her ex did i told her i was sorry but i need to know what was going on. i asked her why she did it and it seem she got more mad at me so i tild her i dont think u care about me real u dont care she hung up on me. i went to work and about 10 min later she called me and told me i insulted her for say i didnt care about her. i told her i couldnt trust her right now.then she txted me saying do not contact her any more so i didnt then she called me about 4 hours later and told me that she understood my point on my saying and ask want do i want to do i told her i still want to see where this relationship will go she asked if i will still talk to her i told her yes she though i wouldnt talk to her againshe said she was going to bed ok we both hung up. i got home that night and seen she has taken me off her friends list on facebook and myspace i figure she didnt want talk any more. i didnt call her the next day she call me 12 am on thursady morning ask why i didnt call her i told her i was busy at work. i kow i lied but i didnt want to start a arguement again she told me that the 2 people profiles say that they are not going to be friends with her anymore and she told me she has to pick friends or me she told me she has been frinds with the female for 14 years the guy she didnt say anything about i told her i was sorry itold her i wont be mad at her for who ever she picks she asked me if i missed her i told her a lot thats about it i need some advice on what i should do or say. was i wrong to look at profile to see what was going on.

[Geishawhelk]

This post is barely legible. You don't punctuate, and you need to break it up into paragraphs.

From what I can tell, she's got kids with an ex, and is expecting number two, and has slept with another guy?

 

And you are with her, because.....?

 

jeesh, she is playing you for a sucker.

you need to grow a backbone and kick her to the kerb.

Go out and find someone who isn't so complicated, screwed up, manipulative, pregnant and promiscuous.

[mopar]

sorry about the punctuation and not paragraphing it was a little tired

[2sure]

Mopar - you are sweet and nice and possibly a good man. With these qualities you have a lot to offer and a promising future.

 

This woman , her drama, her treatment of you, and sadly her children -

are not for you.

 

You're just too good for this one. When you move on, she will come back because she is a drama junky and needs help with her life and all of it will start again.