anya85 Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 So I met this guy on Match.com. He winked at me. I winked back. So he writes me a message joking about how Match.com should give me some kind of credit or something because he subscribed just so he could talk to me(apparently--assuming he's telling the truth, he had a "free" account and was browsing when he winked.). So ok. We exchange several messages, he seems cool. We start talking on AIM---and proceed to begin talking just about every single day for a month online. We finally, maybe three weeks after online meeting, talk on the phone. It goes well. A week later--this past sunday, we met for the first time in person--at Starbucks. We met at 7pm and stayed until they closed at 10pm. It was awesome, he seems really interesting! So then yesterday, he asks me out again--we go to a restaurant--met at 6pm, stay until they closed at 9pm and then proceeded to stand in the parking lot(in the cold!) and talk for another hour and 15 min! So then tonight, he asks me to see a movie with him tommorrow night! It didn't work out though, the movie we wanted to see was playing too late, so we're going this weekend instead. It just seems like it's going too well to be real. We *still* talk online every single day. He is all the time saying what good company I am, how interesting I am, how he wants to get to know me better. He's never once been inappropriate or said or done anything other than be a perfect gentleman. And he's an absolute gem! Good looking, funny, intelligent, he's a really great guy! I've just never dated a guy who wanted to go out so often! Is this a good sign or a bad one? Should I be concerned? lol
Star Gazer Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 If I had a dollar for every guy who said he subscribed *just* to be able to talk to me... He sounds like he's jumping in quickly. While I don't see anything that's worthy of waiving a red flag, I'd definitely proceed cautiously and SLOWLY.
Still Trying Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 Coming from a guy who likes to take things fast, even that seems a wee bit excessive. Just be a little wary but enjoy it!
chrislovestosurf Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 who knows, maybe he really thinks you're the gem. You must be really attractive and interesting yourself!
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