I broke up with her, but still can't forget.

[DJMarky]

I have had 5 girlfriends, and ended it with all of them, but never before have I felt this feeling.

 

My last girlfriend I was only dating for 4 months, but fell so in love with her and I know she felt the same. I was with my ex ex for 2 years and never felt this way.

 

I hooked up with this girl about 3 years ago when I was about 19 at a pub, we saw each other for a while, then drifted apart.

 

She then got a boyfriend and we didn't speak to each other. Not because I was upset, just that we had moved on and had no real emotional attachment to each other.

 

Then all of a sudden she started talking to me on msn, she came and met me for my birthday when I was at work. Then she starts calling me out of the blue wanting to go out for a drink, I tell her I have already organised going out with some mates to have a few beers and play xbox and said she was more than welcome to come, which she accepts. Anyways, we started flirting and getting touchy after we had both had a few drinks, which ended when her bf picked her up from the house.

 

She then msged me on Saturday night when I was out at another party that she had a sexual dream about me.

 

She then came round the next day and things got a bit out of hand, she said she couldn't stop thinking about me, and that she always thought I was hot. Anyways, we went to 3rd base. She then slept over the following Friday and went the whole way. A week later she broke up with her bf, which is when I started sleeping at her place and it pretty much turned into just sex, we didn't expect emotions to get involved. Her ex was lousy in bed, and apparently I was great, so she didn't mind me coming over much.

 

Things were good for a couple of months, til I started getting annoyed she was still hanging out with her ex. I knew nothing was going on between them, they were just friends, well she considered him just a friend (they had zero sex life when together - so I knew there was no physical attraction, more companionship). I suspected that he wanted to get back with her, but knew she wouldn't. Anyways, she didn't want to hurt his feelings so would never say she was dating someone else. This meant at her birthday I had to act like a friend when they were nearby, this was very frustrating.

 

Time passed and I complained more and more about how she refused to tell her ex. Anyways, she said she wanted a break to think which meant not spending NYE with me as previously planned but with her friends from uni, which included other guys. She then tells me the next day in the hotel room she cuddled one of the guys to make it 'easier' to get to sleep. Anyways, a few days later she surprises me and comes round in the morning, we go at it like rabbits and everything is back to normal, except she still wont tell her ex.

 

A few weeks later I break up with her. She came to pick me up after a work function, and then told me to hurry up as she was going to see her ex at work. I was completely pissed off, I left the work function (drinking in a mansion, in a spa) early as I hadn't seen her for a week and wanted to chill out, then to find out her ex (who she had seen a few days earlier) wanted to do something, and she chose him, this made me feel insignificant. Two days later she calls me saying she does not want to break up, so I go round to hers and things go back to being great. She tells me she will tell him and will give me a higher priority and things go fine.

 

She then tells me the next day and the day after she is going to hang out with this dude (the guy she had cuddled on NYE) at his house.

 

Later she tells me that the day prior she had checked him out when he was changing his shirt and had a sexual dream about him, I told her I felt uncomfortable her hanging out with him but she told me I was being insecure. Seriously, it's the same **** that happened to her ex. I don't know if this is Karma, but it's totally ****ed up. She kept talking about how she was planning on seeing a movie with this dude and hanging out with him more and more (at the gym, etc). They talked ALL the time, on msn, by sms, literally all the time. They then organised to go shopping on Friday, I ****ing hate shopping so wouldn't want to be in his place, but it shat me right off. Apparently he just smsed saying we are doing something on Friday, and she said ok.

 

That night I was supposed to go round to hers, but she was at his house ignoring my phone calls so that she could stay longer with him, so I ended it via sms. I know they then started hooking up and have started dating and it is tearing me up.

 

She was such a bitch, but I can't get over her. I can't look at another girl, as none compare to her. She is absolutely stunning. Everywhere we went cars honked, people whistled, guys would come up and chat her up, I would get told she is stunning by everyone, even strangers and now I know some other dude is cuddling her and ****ing her and it hurts. The sex was so damn good.

 

What can I do?

 

I have been ignoring her texts, phone calls and deleted her from facebook, which really pissed her off as she deleted every photo album with me in it. I then gave in and wrote an email about how she betrayed me and I didn't want to have her in my life anymore. I tried to make it as sappy-less as possible, other than that I don't know why I even care what she is doing. It's totally messed up. Usually I break up then don't give them a second thought. I am going traveling/snowboarding in Japan in under 2 weeks, I don't want to think about what she is doing, I just want to act as if she never existed. I don't know how she did this to me, but I hate it.

[alwayssme]

all you keep saying is how gorgeous she was...yes my ex was very attractive too but what does it matter? there are so many good looking people out there...are u sure it was love and not lust?? u just seem to be VERYYYY attracted to her...

[DJMarky]

all you keep saying is how gorgeous she was...yes my ex was very attractive too but what does it matter? there are so many good looking people out there...are u sure it was love and not lust?? u just seem to be VERYYYY attracted to her...

 

Hmm, that's a good point.

 

She is a cool chick, until you start dating her and have reasonable requests which see seems to ignore. She has loads of guy friends, and like 2 female friends. We got on very well to begin with, til I started asking her to actually behave like my girlfriend.

 

I don't know. I think I loved her cause even with my ex ex of 2 years didn't upset me after I ended it.

 

We definitely had different opinions on what was acceptable and what wasn't. She would put every single person above me, where as I would put her above others. She thought I was whining, I thought I was being reasonable. Basically she wanted me to be the boyfriend she saw when she felt like it, and other times I was out of the picture. Definitely not what I am looking for. Maybe I miss the physical side of it more than anything? I don't know, it was nice going to her house to just lie in her bed watching movies, cuddling etc. I enjoyed her company.

[Goatsbreath]

Later she tells me that the day prior she had checked him out when he was changing his shirt and had a sexual dream about him, I told her I felt uncomfortable her hanging out with him but she told me I was being insecure.

 

she makes me mad just listening to her crap. Give me a break, you have nothing to feel insecure about? The guy you cuddled... She enjoys having guys want her and she enjoys guys being jealous over her. Shes a peace of work dude. So what, shes hot, shes not much else as far as character goes. Trust me, she keeps that ex boyfriend around because she likes to seem him swoon for her and she just says, stay down boy. I know you want me and I like having you right there wanting me. Tell her to go **** herself. God she makes me mad. Stupid BItch. I hate her more then you do, haha

[Goatsbreath]

Tell her shes hot but its to bad you don't know how to make a man feel good about himself or the relationship hes in. Hope one day you figure that out.

[DJMarky]

she makes me mad just listening to her crap. Give me a break, you have nothing to feel insecure about? The guy you cuddled... She enjoys having guys want her and she enjoys guys being jealous over her. Shes a peace of work dude. So what, shes hot, shes not much else as far as character goes. Trust me, she keeps that ex boyfriend around because she likes to seem him swoon for her and she just says, stay down boy. I know you want me and I like having you right there wanting me. Tell her to go **** herself. God she makes me mad. Stupid BItch. I hate her more then you do, haha

 

I had many restless nights where she had no regard for what I had to say. She made me appreciate the other girls I have been with, as none of them had no regard for what I had to say.

 

Her ex still pays for things, such as her mobile phone bill ($500+), festival tickets, dinner, the hotel room I was supposed to be in (he paid, didnt stay, she reckons she will pay him back - I doubt it - he is whipped) and rocks up to her house with random presents such as a calling card. I suspect she uses him for those gifts, and telling him would forfeit those.

 

Also, she hangs around a bunch of 19 yos who are so pathetic. My brother is a dnb nut, he loves the music. He can't stand her or her friends. All they do is take pills then talk about pills NON STOP! If you are going to take them, then do them and shut the **** up about them, ****ing hell. They are a bunch of immature posers. One wears non-prescription glasses cause he thinks they look cool, they are just plain glass.

 

She also name drops to my friends and brother who has no idea who she is talking about. Pretty much the only things she talks about, 'I am SO excited. I am doing pills on the weekend' or 'My friend so and so is dj-ing at this festival, blah blah'.

 

She also dresses like a complete slut, with dresses she has to constantly pull down to cover her own ass. She loves the attention guys give her.

 

Wow, saying all this made me realise how much of a try-hard/loser she is.

 

I called her a bitch and she went around and showed her neighbours, and they are like 'omg, you aren't a bitch' and basically have a huge bitch fest about me. She however forgot to explain why I called her a bitch, you know, pretty much cheating on me, but oh well she likes to keep up impressions with everyone. Superficial whore.

[DJMarky]

Hahah, so I told her I was tempted to send her ex (well ex ex now) an explicit video of us - which I would NEVER do, I just said it to get a reaction. Anyways, she was not happy. She told all her friends (who already hate me) and her neighbours. HAHA! Wow, I got a whole group of people who loathe me now.

[northstar1]

Forget about this one, and move on mate. This girl cheats on her boyfriend with you.............so shouldnt' really be surprising how she's acting now should it?

 

Take the high road, cut her out of your life and find someone else to date who won't play games.

[sedgwick]

*tries to dredge up from junior high what "3rd base" is*

[DJMarky]

*tries to dredge up from junior high what "3rd base" is*

 

I was watching Ferris Bueller's Day Off and she was on her knees.

[DJMarky]

Ok, so I ****ed up.

 

I am going to start NC now.

 

I talked to her last night, she sent me a friendly message today, I replied.

 

Then on my work break we went to a restaurant in the city, which was near the place me and my ex used to eat at. I thought of her and realised I still loved her.

 

I couldn't help myself, but sent her a message saying I still loved her and hated imagining her with another guy so soon after I broke up with her and I didn't want to contact her.

 

****, I wish I could take back half the **** I send her.

 

But yeh, time to heal, no more messaging or contact. I hope things improve.

[BackonTrack2]

I know girls like this, they are not good girls, they are users of men.

And her EX still pays for things before HER ex probably doesn't know about you and she definitely has sex with him once in a while.

That's her sugar daddy.

 

If her EX was so lousy in BED, why she stay with him?

She's a LIAR.

 

PS, she had sex with you while together with ANOTHER.

She cheated on him to be with YOU.

Ofcourse she's going to do the same to YOU because thats her pattern.

 

 

She is currently using her LOOKS to get her WAY because she realizes the power she has over MEN.

She gives them her cunt, because thats all she has to OFFER.

 

She has no character, she is not a good girl.

I feel sorry for you because NOW, your one of those MEN, who you said "she always have men around her", your one of them now, she probably had sex with a few of them and then turned them INTO friends so she can USE them later on in LIFE.

 

That girl is very smart, extremely bright.

 

Be happy your not with HER, and oh yeah, I don't think your feeling "in-love", I think its something else, you won't realize until your mind clears up.

-----

 

Oh yeah, this girl can move on in the blink of an eye, because thats how she IS, no DOWN-TOWN inbetween relationships, because men are disposiable, they are so easy to get, your just a dick in the jar.

 

whatever you do, DO NOT TELL HER you love her, SHOW NO EMOTION, NONE. Be happy and SMILE and tell her your HAPPY she found someone to be HAPPY with.

 

YOU = HAPPY :-)

 

End this NOW, or else you'll suffer but you won't listen.

Oh YEAH, why are you mad? Deep down you must of knew she was like this, what did you expect?

 

I feel sorry for you.

 

She's a whore.. Why would you want a whore?

Why would you want someone whois currently ****ing another?

You like sharing?

[DJMarky]

I was thinking of sending her an email, to kind of balance out the last sms I sent but know I will probably regret it.

 

Should I just not say anything and go to Japan, come back and just continue not talking to her?

[BackonTrack2]

I will probably regret it.

 

WHy would you do something your going to regret? Thats not smart... Be smart...

 

To answer your question = NO..

 

Should you go to japan and not say NOTHING = YES.

 

You should NOT SAY NOTHING!!

NO EMAIL, NO TEXT, No HELLO, No nothing.

 

Whats the point? She doesn't care, she's ****ing someone else....

 

Just go to Japan and forget about her, have fun and visit the samuris or something, but whatever you do, do not contact her, do not text her, do not call her, do nothing.

 

Nothing.

Nothing.....

 

Worry about what to do after you get from Japan as to what to do, but my advice = DO NOT CONTACT HER, even after you get back, she's not your girl dude, she isn't your friend and most importantly... she's ****ing someone else...

[DJMarky]

WHy would you do something your going to regret? Thats not smart... Be smart...

 

To answer your question = NO..

 

Should you go to japan and not say NOTHING = YES.

 

You should NOT SAY NOTHING!!

NO EMAIL, NO TEXT, No HELLO, No nothing.

 

Whats the point? She doesn't care, she's ****ing someone else....

 

Just go to Japan and forget about her, have fun and visit the samuris or something, but whatever you do, do not contact her, do not text her, do not call her, do nothing.

 

Nothing.

Nothing.....

 

Worry about what to do after you get from Japan as to what to do, but my advice = DO NOT CONTACT HER, even after you get back, she's not your girl dude, she isn't your friend and most importantly... she's ****ing someone else...

 

So true.

 

I got so frustrated that she never saw my side, she always thought she was miss perfect. Every time I have told people about my predicament they are in shock and can't believe I was even with her for so long.

 

My parents think she is a slut, my brother hates even talking to her cause she is so superficial, my mates got a long with her but thought she treated me like **** and yeh, basically all she had going for her was her looks, which is probably what captured me. Trust me if it was some obese chick treating me like that I would have been out in the first day, but to tell you the truth I wouldn't start dating an obese chick, but you get the idea.

 

Im in japan for nearly 5 weeks. EPIC! The last 8 days or so we are staying in a ski resort, and with the package we get free drinks. There are a few clubs in the resort, so hopefully be plenty of women. I did japanese for a year when I was at university as an elective, and met a lot of japanese women and wow they were easy to swoon.

 

Thanks for the advice dude, I need to hear that kind of stuff so I don't start thinking of her affectionately, like a normal human being, when in fact she is a user, which my mum thought from the very start. My mum was stoked when I told her I broke up with her, she said she was no good and a tease/flirt.

 

Anyways, work is over and it's a Friday, which means work drinks + pool.

 

Thanks again dude!

 

[EDIT]

 

Forgot to mention when I met her 3 years ago, on her myspace she had pictures of her on the bed in lingerie spreading her legs, showing off her underwear and in a nurse outfit. The day or so after we hooked up the first thing she told me was to go and look .. so yeh that is the type of girl I was dealing with.

[BackonTrack2]

So true.

 

I got so frustrated that she never saw my side, she always thought she was miss perfect. Every time I have told people about my predicament they are in shock and can't believe I was even with her for so long.

 

Forgot to mention when I met her 3 years ago, on her myspace she had pictures of her on the bed in lingerie spreading her legs, showing off her underwear and in a nurse outfit. The day or so after we hooked up the first thing she told me was to go and look .. so yeh that is the type of girl I was dealing with.

 

You really can't sit there and anaylze this thing, its one of those things thats a mystery, like why is the sky blue? Who created the earth? Why is my girlfriend physco..... U never know.....

 

As about the "frustrated that she never saw my side" is because

a) she doesn't want to see the truth

b) other men are telling her, she's PERFECT

 

Rather than take a good cold hard look in the mirror, its easier to just blame YOU. In the end, you are going to Japan so focus on that.. Hey dude, do you got your ski clothes packed and ready?? Are you brushing up your Japanese skills?

 

Do you have your camera, and all your other stuff???

I would hate to go to one of those places and be un-prepared..

 

As about your EX, some women are just like that...... One day t hey will get tired of WHORING and settle down with whois around and then mature and think about the LIFE they could of had, while you'll be in Japan having fun meeting decent women.

 

Have Fun

[DJMarky]

Thanks again.

 

Yeh, I got most of my things. Going to do a check this weekend to ensure I got all the clothing required. I went out (with my ex - gay another memory) to buy some snowboarding clothing, she made sure I would look hot.

 

As about your EX, some women are just like that...... One day t hey will get tired of WHORING and settle down with whois around and then mature and think about the LIFE they could of had

 

I just wish she didn't have to do it now, and I wish I didn't fall for her like I did and wish she settled now. I read on this site and people have gone through far worse than what I am experiencing now which puts things into perspective but I still feel terrible.

 

She is out now getting trashed with her new boyfriend and his friends, probably sleeping at his and it pisses me off! I can't believe she had the ****ing nerve to tell me I was insecure. Look what ****ing happened!!! She told me I drove her away with all my requests. I am by far not a nagging person, in fact my last girlfriends would have said I was too relaxed, but somehow I nag with this one.

 

My requests

 

a) Tell your ex

b) Stop hanging out and talking to a dude 24/7 who you keep telling me is hot and having sexual dreams with

 

I think that is about it. Bitch.

 

She thought the guy was hot and went, I have had enough of him, ill go for him now.

 

THEN SHE HAS THE NERVE TO GET PEOPLE TO THINK I AM IN THE WRONG AND HER NEW BOYFRIEND THE FAGGOT ASKS HER TO DELETE THE PHOTOS OF ME FROM FACEBOOK! YOU ****ING DICK YOU WERE TRYING TO **** HER WHILE I WAS STILL WITH HER! I WANT TO STAB HIM IN THE EYE!

 

Ahhh, ok got that out of my system.

 

I am supposed to go out to a mates now, go to the pub then head back to his to watch a movie. He has a hell ladsy set up in his place. One of the last times I was there my ex was with me and we fell to sleep together, oh well now I guess she has found a new guy to toy with. It makes me furious how she turned all her friends against me, to think I was the bad one in the situation for calling her a bitch when she was ****ing ignoring my phone calls to be with the guy I ****ing hated her hanging around who she ended up ****ing that day!

 

Ahh she's not worth my time.

[BackonTrack2]

Thanks again.

 

Yeh, I got most of my things. Going to do a check this weekend to ensure I got all the clothing required. I went out (with my ex - gay another memory) to buy some snowboarding clothing, she made sure I would look hot.

 

 

 

I just wish she didn't have to do it now, and I wish I didn't fall for her like I did and wish she settled now. I read on this site and people have gone through far worse than what I am experiencing now which puts things into perspective but I still feel terrible.

 

She is out now getting trashed with her new boyfriend and his friends, probably sleeping at his and it pisses me off! I can't believe she had the ****ing nerve to tell me I was insecure. Look what ****ing happened!!! She told me I drove her away with all my requests. I am by far not a nagging person, in fact my last girlfriends would have said I was too relaxed, but somehow I nag with this one.

 

My requests

 

a) Tell your ex

b) Stop hanging out and talking to a dude 24/7 who you keep telling me is hot and having sexual dreams with

 

I think that is about it. Bitch.

 

She thought the guy was hot and went, I have had enough of him, ill go for him now.

 

THEN SHE HAS THE NERVE TO GET PEOPLE TO THINK I AM IN THE WRONG AND HER NEW BOYFRIEND THE FAGGOT ASKS HER TO DELETE THE PHOTOS OF ME FROM FACEBOOK! YOU ****ING DICK YOU WERE TRYING TO **** HER WHILE I WAS STILL WITH HER! I WANT TO STAB HIM IN THE EYE!

 

Ahhh, ok got that out of my system.

 

I am supposed to go out to a mates now, go to the pub then head back to his to watch a movie. He has a hell ladsy set up in his place. One of the last times I was there my ex was with me and we fell to sleep together, oh well now I guess she has found a new guy to toy with. It makes me furious how she turned all her friends against me, to think I was the bad one in the situation for calling her a bitch when she was ****ing ignoring my phone calls to be with the guy I ****ing hated her hanging around who she ended up ****ing that day!

 

Ahh she's not worth my time.

 

 

Hey bro, we have to stop going back and fourth, most people would ignore you but I understand.

Your girlfriend is a liar, you cannot believe her.

 

I know you are going to be MAD, Its natural, you fell for a user, its OK, they are very GOOD at what they do, u can't be upset.....

 

This won't help for RIGHT NOW but, just rest assured, some day, sooner or later her fantasy world is going to come crashing down and she will get burned just like you.

 

Also why are you upset? You should be SOOO HAPPY!!!, imagine if she would of stayed and you married her and she pulled this **** when you had kids or something... You would really be destroyed.....

 

Your going to be VERY upset for a long time, ITS OK... Let it out

 

Also her telling you about the NEW guy is how little she respects you.....

 

For example, I had a girl like that once, I didn't know, I loved her, she was fawking someone else for about 6 months before I started to notice, anyway, when everything hit the light, I got rid of the whore, but she was so persistant, in calling me, emailing, for ONE week straight, eventually I gave IN and called her back, only to meet with her and threw her out again, this whole time she is talking so much smack to me, I took it like a girly man, then she starts crying and I melt like a really girly man, I actually believed her lies.

 

Eitherway dude, it took me about 9 months before I really got better, I'm on month 11 right now, I don't really remember anymore... So in time you will forget.

 

In the END, your GIRL is acting like this because SHE CAN, you ALLOW HER, you ALLOW HER, to tell you about the other man, YOU ALLOW THIS, in my situtation, my girl knew better, I would of choked her ass, and she damn sure knew it too. My ex feared me sort of but when I didn't keep my word of breaking up with her, she just lost all respect for me, began treating me like garbage...

 

What I realize now is that all the HURT I suffered, happen AFTER i found out she was fawking another man because I stayed in communication with her for about 1 month, and those are really the most painfull memories..... WHY, because I was seeing if I could get it back and I COULD OF, but I was to messed up emmotionally and she wanted me to WIN HER OVER and pretend as if she just didn't stab me in the back and I couldn't do it..... It bothered me TOOO MUCH..... But I fought back and she must of realized I wasn't going to give her what she wanted (money) so she flipped the script on me and I ended up suffering for about a year..... She messed me up goood...... Eitherway, I LET HER DO IT...... I let her keep hurting me......

 

 

I guess what I'm saying is, Yeah your upset, punch a wall or something, but DON'T TALK ABOUT IT, Talk to yourself in the mirror or something, be upset, its COOL, but DO NOT contact her ever again, atleast for another 9 months when your head is corrected.

 

I am sure you have allot of **** you want to say, curse her the fawk out and then go to Japan, you'll feel better but in the end, its not worth the drama, so your going to just have to take this one as a LOST and don't pick a girl like that to fall in love with in the future.

 

 

PS, the reason(s) she tells you those things is because you allow her to... You ALLOW her to hurt you... Stop letting her hurt you... She doesn't realize how much it bothers you and if she DOES, she's just sick.....

 

You should be so happy, I am so happy now, at first I was very destroyed but as time passed, I have come to realize that... I still don't know what to make of it... All I know in the end she left, cursed me the fawk out and I never heard back from her, its been a year..... I'm not saying I want to hear from her and in all honesty I want to give the relationship another shot but I won't allow myself to go there...... She'll just hurt me again..... Once was enough.... I don't need to be stabbed twice in the heart....

 

So thats where I am.... Your in the begining stages, I'm so glad I made it through and 11 months later, I don't remember, soon I'll forget.... so like YOU, you'll be angry for a WHILE, then sad, then wonder why she hasn't come back or called, but those are natural proccesses, OR if you find another you really won't care but eitherway, you are detoxing from that relationship and its going to take time so let it burn, know that its normal, now that in the end, you'll emerger very happy you are not with her.

 

Good Luck

[DJMarky]

Cheers dude.

 

I feel much better, plus I have the upper hand now, I was a bit down at the pub, but didn't let it bother me too much, then she surprisingly sent me a message. It went a long the lines of, "Hey, how are you? I am so drunk and I can't stop thinking about you." .. I replied saying that she was with another person, she shown me she doesnt care and to not bother me. I then passed out on my mates couch when we got home and woke up and now I have 2 missed calls from her. I don't know whether to call back or not.

[BackonTrack2]

HAHA, look u see????

Did I call it or did I not call it????

 

Ok, DO NOTHING STILL, follow my instructions.

 

DO NOTHING, she is not desperate yet, she is going to get DESEPERATE, REALLY DESEPERATE, she is going to increase the call volumes, increase the text(s),, DO NOTHING, DO NOTHING,

 

She is then going to leave a voicemail or show up at your HOUSE... Wait for the voicemail.

 

WHATEVER YOU DO, THIS IS IMPORTANT, DO NOT RESPOND in any way shape or form.....

 

OR IF YOU FEEL THE NEED to respond... same something along these lines

 

"I feel as if you should focus all your attention on your current boyfriend, we are not together anymore, have a blessed day"

 

BUT DO NOTHING, DO NOT RESPOND, DO NOT RESPOND!!!, I repeat, do NOT RESPOND, the tides are TURNING NOW, you are winning, keep winning.

 

DO NOT RESPOND

 

You have to send a private message to wiseone1, he is a PRO AT THIS, get in contact with him. search the treads for him, he is the master... Nothing more I can do... contact wiseone1, he can take it from here

 

Start by reading this

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t171615/

 

Now its a game, brain game, wait for wiseone1 to come on here, I contacted him already and told him you need his advice.. wait for him

 

[edit]

PS.. Hey dude, now you got the best team on the planet on your side... wait for wiseone1. You can get it back (not advisable) but you can get it back, wait for wise0ne.

[DJMarky]

HAHA, look u see????

Did I call it or did I not call it????

 

Ok, DO NOTHING STILL, follow my instructions.

 

DO NOTHING, she is not desperate yet, she is going to get DESEPERATE, REALLY DESEPERATE, she is going to increase the call volumes, increase the text(s),, DO NOTHING, DO NOTHING,

 

She is then going to leave a voicemail or show up at your HOUSE... Wait for the voicemail.

 

WHATEVER YOU DO, THIS IS IMPORTANT, DO NOT RESPOND in any way shape or form.....

 

OR IF YOU FEEL THE NEED to respond... same something along these lines

 

"I feel as if you should focus all your attention on your current boyfriend, we are not together anymore, have a blessed day"

 

BUT DO NOTHING, DO NOT RESPOND, DO NOT RESPOND!!!, I repeat, do NOT RESPOND, the tides are TURNING NOW, you are winning, keep winning.

 

DO NOT RESPOND

 

You have to send a private message to wiseone1, he is a PRO AT THIS, get in contact with him. search the treads for him, he is the master... Nothing more I can do... contact wiseone1, he can take it from here

 

Start by reading this

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t171615/

 

Now its a game, brain game, wait for wiseone1 to come on here, I contacted him already and told him you need his advice.. wait for him

 

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PS.. Hey dude, now you got the best team on the planet on your side... wait for wiseone1. You can get it back (not advisable) but you can get it back, wait for wise0ne.

 

Thanks man.

 

I called her back before reading this but totally acted indifferent. She was saying how her and her brother had a fight and noone was there for her, i said well **** (the new guy shes kinda seeing) is so why don't you talk to him and she's like its not the same. Then I told her I had to go and help a friend and left the convo. I just showed her no mood or anything, I don't even think I want her back, she was smoking hot but like you said she's a user.

 

Anyways, I got friends over, kinda getting pissed and watching the new entourage series then heading out, hoping I can find some girls tonight. I'll keep reading this and get your guys help. Feel much better.

[DJMarky]

AHHHH!!

 

Some new **** went down.

 

She called me 4 times this morning, but since I didn't get to bed til 6am I didn't answer til later.

 

She started yelling at me and telling me not to contact her friends. Basically what happened is I sent one of her friends a message just saying that there were no hard feelings, it didn't bother me that she was with this other guy and to have a good life. It was short and I thought it would be a nice thing to say.

 

Anyways, apparently they found it funny as, since they are a bunch of immature posers and she calls me going, now they are just laughing, why did you have to contact my friends? Don't do it .. blah blah blah. I got really shat off, one for being such a faggot that I thought it would be nice to send them a nice message, since i knew they disliked me immensely (I loathed them), to end things on a better note and secondly for her ringing me to have a bitch about it. I just wish she would drop off the face of the planet.

 

I am tempted to send her a sms telling her that her friends are a bunch of immature posers and can she stop contacting me, even with problems in her life, as I want her out of mine but will wait for what you guys think is the best course of action.

 

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I sent the message to her friends before I wrote this thread, so it wasn't a recent screw up. I would never have done it now, well especially since I know they are all a bunch of immature ****s.

[DJMarky]

Haha, ok 3 responses all by me but wanted to add this in as well.

 

You were talking about don't let her hurt you kinda thing, well what do I do exactly? If she mentions the other dude do I tell her to shut the **** up? I actually don't want to talk to her again, so I hope this doesn't happen but from recent events she is calling me to **** around with me.

 

She is always going, he is so hot! What does it mean when a guy says you are beautiful? Is that better than hot? I know he really likes me, like the way he looks at me and smiles .. all this **** and I am just sitting there going w t f ?? If i ****ed another girl I wouldn't feel the need to ring her and tell her, if I got a new gf I don't even think i'd mention it. She loves showing off .. such a show pony. Wow, such a total bitch.

 

I want to email/sms her all this **** but won't. I've done enough harm in the earlier stages emailing her and being abusive, then ****ing up and sending her friend a nice message. It's all pretty ****ed up right now. I should have stayed NC like I did for the first few days ignoring her phone calls, but picturing her ****ing this other guy the day I broke up with her infuriated me so I had to tell her what a whore she is.

 

Not to mention smsing me saying she can't stop thinking about me!? DOES SHE HAVE A ****ING CHEMICAL IMBALANCE? SUCH A WEIRD ****ING GIRL.

[Goatsbreath]

Don't you get it? The more you contact her and call her a slut and get all angry the more you validate your role as someone shes just going to use and spit out.

 

You want to know what to do. Stop being a wuss and returning every call she makes to you, stop texting her friends. Stop everything.....No calls, no text, no emails, no facebook, no myspace, no nothing. Block her if you must and ask yourself honestly, "is this what you want out of a relationship?"

 

Every time you make a new post its about how she called or texted 2-3 times and I just know a few paragraphs down there's going to be something about you calling her back and then this dramatic **** unfolds. Just stop............STOP

[BackonTrack2]

Haha, ok 3 responses all by me but wanted to add this in as well.

 

You were talking about don't let her hurt you kinda thing, well what do I do exactly? If she mentions the other dude do I tell her to shut the **** up? I actually don't want to talk to her again, so I hope this doesn't happen but from recent events she is calling me to **** around with me.

 

She is always going, he is so hot! What does it mean when a guy says you are beautiful? Is that better than hot? I know he really likes me, like the way he looks at me and smiles .. all this **** and I am just sitting there going w t f ?? If i ****ed another girl I wouldn't feel the need to ring her and tell her, if I got a new gf I don't even think i'd mention it. She loves showing off .. such a show pony. Wow, such a total bitch.

 

I want to email/sms her all this **** but won't. I've done enough harm in the earlier stages emailing her and being abusive, then ****ing up and sending her friend a nice message. It's all pretty ****ed up right now. I should have stayed NC like I did for the first few days ignoring her phone calls, but picturing her ****ing this other guy the day I broke up with her infuriated me so I had to tell her what a whore she is.

 

Not to mention smsing me saying she can't stop thinking about me!? DOES SHE HAVE A ****ING CHEMICAL IMBALANCE? SUCH A WEIRD ****ING GIRL.

 

Your not listening, I tried, you were doing better but you got back to talking to her, she got back the power, you are now losing again...

 

U stop listening, I told you, U don't know what your doing, U don't understand whats going on, your going to suffer.

 

Good Luck