kyflyingbutterfly Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 I have been in a realtionship for 6 years, plans to marry one day. i recently discovered my bf was calling a women he worked with, as a matter of fact it was 34 times he called her and 24 that she called him. He lied and denied talking to any other women. once i left town for a week or so, he did admit and told me her name but they were just friends. he said he will stop talking to her, we are trying to work it out. i thought he had stopped talking to her first of jan, but he didnt' still phone calls from her to him and him to her, more from her to him, i called PAMELA, she says they have been seeing each other and they have slept together, and she last saw him on Sunday, which he was in the area she lived for a church function.. Yes A good "Christian" man.. He was calm and said she will say anything, and he called his mother who confirmed she was with her the whole time. HELP.. Can the OW be so desperate to hold on that she would make up lies, i have seen her myspace page, and she is desperate..i mean sadly so. or am i being a fool, i can't stop thinking about it, i can't sleep ..ETC.
blueintheface Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 but he didnt' still phone calls from her to him and him to her HHe was calm and said she will say anythinge was calm and said she will say anything that's kind of fishy. if i'm accused of something i didn't do, i would chuck a spack. also there's a thing called mom code, it's similar to guy code. frankly you need more evidence to be sure though it does seem likely. does pamela know about you?
nikki123 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 It may be hard, but you have to leave this guy alone. He has shown you what he's capable of, don't stick around for the finale. There are many guys who can make you happy and few that can make you miserable. talkingchick.com
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