Knight_Ctrl Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 Up until recently I've always had an atmosphere such as school or....well, yeah school to meet girls in. I'm fantastic at talking to girls in situations where we are forced to be in contact (or I see them often enough to not be shy). Problem is I was going to get some food the other day by myself and there was this beautiful girl working there. We had lots of eye contact and shared some smiles, I really wanted to give her my number but...I've never just given a random girl my number before. So do I just be like "hey heres my number"? Or would that be creepy and awkward Or should I go in a few times and THEN give her my number, Help. How's it work in the real world.
Yamaha Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 You need to strike up a conversation if you want to get her digits. Going in a few times is an idea but just show her some interest and be comfortable around her. If you're comfortable she will be too. Then you can ask her for the number.
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 28, 2009 Author Posted January 28, 2009 yeah i've got plenty of confidence and I'm a good listener so if I luck out and discover that she is a talker I can just sit and listen. I think I'll go back later this week and see if I can get some of the same reactions.
crfsti Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 yeah, i would just start up a conversion with her and at the end ask her if she would like to hang out sometime outside of work, then if she says yes, offer your number to her and then she might give you hers . just my $0.02 good luck!
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