alwayssme Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 i read ur other post about her ssaying u were "stalking" her........CRAZY CHICK!! anyway!!!! do not contact her, serioulsy...chances are she's not going to say "aww i just realized how much i love you" she is going to act rude most likely or distant.....soooo just dont do it.....and closure...i never got one either......but trust me what closure can they give anyway??? and sometimes i feel like i dont even wanna know why my ex no longer loves me..who knows?? it could hurt me real bad so why cause yoursel more pain? the heartbreak is bad enough
Author OCCDAVE Posted January 29, 2009 Author Posted January 29, 2009 Im sorry she got another boyfriend soo quickly...that tells me she is a very weak individual and that was just some temporary relief for her. I know it hurts like hell knowing she was with someone else and how she turned soo cold on you. I don't know how someone turns soo cold on someone else, it baffles me. After all that time of u guys being together, she should've gave you some kind of explanation, something.... I pretty much told my ex I really needed a friend last week, I was going through some bad stuff regarding my child support $ and some other issues. I felt comfort in just talking to him because he knew my situation very well, we were best friends in that aspect. After knowing how upset I was he told me we are no longer in a relationship and I need to turn to my family. It hurt me real bad, I was always there for him, listened to him, gave him advice, etc...I really needed him that day as a friend I told him that and he wouldn't. I have some trust issues and our whole relationship he wanted me 2 trust him , which I did to an extent, but after this he has to realize why I could never fully have trust in him. Im sorry Im rambling...I do feel for you and with time the pain will go away and you will realize your relationship ended for a reason. Some days will be really bad, but I wouldnt contact her for her to be cold towards you and hurt you all over again.ur not rambling my ex told me the same if i needed a friend she will be there for me.She text my sister this was when it was id say a week or two after the break up asking how i was and stuff.My sister said he's fine and doing well.She felt the need to say good to hear he's doing good just make sure he knows we are really over with ugh.My sister told her grow up and leave me out of this.But that was my friend as she claimed:rolleyes: Ya always thats why i went 3 weeks nc then broke it i thought she had called i wont lie to say sorry nope thats when she blamed me of sitting in on her stairs for hours yet no one confronted me lol.
Knight_Ctrl Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 just remember man, dick kick. I broke NC tonight myself. Wasn't me contacting but broke it non the less. Now im thinking of her, dont do it
lonelygurl Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 Heh thanks for the reply lonelygurl just hurts knowing someone you gave so much to can become so cold.I agree with what you said if they wanted to contact us they would find a way even if its a simple hello but they don't care sigh. Yes OCCDAVE I completely understand how much it hurts knowing that someone you love so much can be so cold. I am going through the exact same thing. I am going through this for the second time with the same man. I hate myself for allowing him to do this to the second time. Oh all his promises of it would be different, and he was here to stay no matter what....blah blah blah....all empty promises and broken lies. ALL BS. It feels like someone has stabbed us in the heart and the bleeding and pain will never stop.
Author OCCDAVE Posted January 29, 2009 Author Posted January 29, 2009 Yes OCCDAVE I completely understand how much it hurts knowing that someone you love so much can be so cold. I am going through the exact same thing. I am going through this for the second time with the same man. I hate myself for allowing him to do this to the second time. Oh all his promises of it would be different, and he was here to stay no matter what....blah blah blah....all empty promises and broken lies. ALL BS. It feels like someone has stabbed us in the heart and the bleeding and pain will never stop.Same man huh then i take it you were in my position and gave him another chance or what.If so see thats what id know would happen id give this girl another chance then when she got bored again or had someone lined up bye bye meh.
lonelygurl Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 Same man huh then i take it you were in my position and gave him another chance or what.If so see thats what id know would happen id give this girl another chance then when she got bored again or had someone lined up bye bye meh. When he said the first time around he needed a break I believed him and was under the impression from he told me it was to work on "himself". After two months of wishy washy.....we had lived together for 3.5 years but not during that 2 months of wishy washy. I found out he had a new girlfriend.....well that was it for me. I cut him off completely. Three months down the road he sent me a paragraph or two of how sorry he was for hurting me and blah blah email which I ignored and then had my email deleted so he couldn't send me anything.....about a month after that I guess he tried to send another which would have been send back message undeliverable and he searched for a family member and emailed them about contacting me. One thing lead to another and over time I allowed him back into my life........just over 3.5 years later and pretty much the same road.....here I am again!!! My X and I are neither perfect....we both let the relationship slide....I did tell him that I wanted to work on repairing it because I am having serious depression/anxiety problems....nothing to do with him, but he also has serious issues. I have also come to the conclusion that he is a sex addict...he meets (not me) some pretty slutty women from some sites that I won't mention on here for fear or breaking some rule and they make me want to throw up. I found this out the first time I dated him and found out a few months after the second time we got back together that he had been back in those sites to meet women simply for sex. I feel he views sex as love and if he isn't constantly getting sex he figures he isn't loved...and well that is just crap! Can't say what would happen for you if you ever got back together with your X, but I can say don't sit at home thinking it will happen. MOVE ON............ Shut her out and live you life!!!!!!!!! I know it is hard
Author OCCDAVE Posted January 29, 2009 Author Posted January 29, 2009 Ya it is hard very hard to be honest.Speaking of being on sites where all they do is hook up well um my friend did a simple search of my ex's screenname and found a profile of hers on a site.what made it more sick is she was advertising having kids on the site and looking for fun with no strings attached.I am willing to try just about anything as long as its fun ugh that turned my stomach.It even said the last login day was like 3 days ago and it was a paid account so the person has used it.I made a bogus name and told her about it she denied it next day the profile was taken down kinda fishy don't u think meh.
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