Knight_Ctrl Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 Ok its been about 3 months now since my girl broke up with me and left me for my friend. Up until a little while ago I was just down right depressed about it. But recently I've stopped crying all together and have been fighting every urge possible to call her and tell her how much of a bitch she is, and more so I've been fighting the urge to hunt down this bastard ex friend of mine and beat the **** out of him. I live in a small town so every time I go downtown I have to drive by where they work together, and every time I see his car parked next to hers I want to put a bat through his window. I haven't done anything yet, and I'm usually the type of person to not get pissed off. I have had several years of martial arts training and that taught me all sorts of things about discipline and I know if I were to go fight him that I would possibly kill him (literally) and I don't want to go to jail. My question is , why only recently have I become this pissed about the whole thing. I've gotten the shaft in the past. Granted I loved this girl more than the whole world, but why am I so angry....
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 If I were you and I knew I could get away with it, I'd slash his tires, break his windows, and pour tons of water into his gas tank, and I'd probably laugh about it for months. Right now, I know many people are rolling their eyes at me. God, it's so much more fun to be the villain. SO many people would do what I just said... the only difference is, I admit it. So I'm about to get yelled at and scolded by many people, because I've become the front. I welcome the ad-hominem arguments. Knight, you're getting pissed because you're in the anger stage most likely. Or because you're repressed; you're forced to see their cars together and not DO anything. Your anger is being repressed. It will soon become rage. Embrace the rage. Don't kill anyone though. **** their car up though if you can get away with it. (LOL) Btw, teach me martial arts. Hell yes.
Zammo25 Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 If I were you and I knew I could get away with it, I'd slash his tires, break his windows, and pour tons of water into his gas tank, and I'd probably laugh about it for months. Right now, I know many people are rolling their eyes at me. God, it's so much more fun to be the villain. SO many people would do what I just said... the only difference is, I admit it. So I'm about to get yelled at and scolded by many people, because I've become the front. I welcome the ad-hominem arguments. Knight, you're getting pissed because you're in the anger stage most likely. Or because you're repressed; you're forced to see their cars together and not DO anything. Your anger is being repressed. It will soon become rage. Embrace the rage. Don't kill anyone though. **** their car up though if you can get away with it. (LOL) You can't be serious surely. Look rise above it. It hurst like hell for sure but breaking his windows with NOT make you felel better and make you look pathetic. Rise above it as its her loss. Be strong,
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 No. No, Zammo, I'm very serious. They ****ed him over with no remorse. Why WOULDN'T you beat the **** out of his car if you knew you'd get away with it? That's what's wrong with our society. Too many people preaching about self control. IT causes pent up rage, which in turn leads to much greater crimes and violence.
You'reasian Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 Ok its been about 3 months now since my girl broke up with me and left me for my friend. Up until a little while ago I was just down right depressed about it. But recently I've stopped crying all together and have been fighting every urge possible to call her and tell her how much of a bitch she is, and more so I've been fighting the urge to hunt down this bastard ex friend of mine and beat the **** out of him. I live in a small town so every time I go downtown I have to drive by where they work together, and every time I see his car parked next to hers I want to put a bat through his window. I haven't done anything yet, and I'm usually the type of person to not get pissed off. I have had several years of martial arts training and that taught me all sorts of things about discipline and I know if I were to go fight him that I would possibly kill him (literally) and I don't want to go to jail. My question is , why only recently have I become this pissed about the whole thing. I've gotten the shaft in the past. Granted I loved this girl more than the whole world, but why am I so angry.... Stop loving this girl because she doesn't love you - get it? You need to overcome your anger, be the better man and move on. Beating and killing this guy has nothing to do with your ex-girlfriend deciding that she doesn't want to be with you. You will meet many more women, hopefully the right one - go out, grab a coffee and just chat up some attractive, intelligent woman in the coffee shop. You might get shot down - if so, why? then mooove on, lather, rinse, repeat. Ultimately be yourself and you'll find her Good luck!
not_a_happy_camper Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 DON'T DO ANY DAMAGE!!!! Buy yourself a punching bag if you haven't got one already..................or a drum kit.....................something you can get angry with! and release! I find singing at the top of my voice very therapeutic. Except they're all break-up songs......................so it's like I relate to them, and I belt them out...............venting I suppose!
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 Knight don't literally go taking my advice. I just feel your anger and am pissed for you. Putting yourself at risk with the law isn't worth the laughs... notice how I said if you knew for sure you'd get away with it. There is no way to know you'd get away with it, so don't do it. But laugh at the thought
not_a_happy_camper Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 Knight don't literally go taking my advice. I just feel your anger and am pissed for you. Putting yourself at risk with the law isn't worth the laughs... notice how I said if you knew for sure you'd get away with it. There is no way to know you'd get away with it, so don't do it. But laugh at the thought backpedal, backpedal!!!
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 28, 2009 Author Posted January 28, 2009 dammnit i want to so bad....I know I couldnt get away with it though everyone knows I'm pissed at this kid and I would be looked upon immediately....maybe I'll wait a few years, and take my revenge down the road....still, it doesnt make dealing with this rage any easier.
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 LMAO I'll slam the whole car into reverse if I for a second think that my advice would actually manipulate him into ruining his life. I don't want to see that. Knight's my main dude. DON'T GO COMMITTING VANDALISM. But my God in a perfect world, it would be hilarious to.
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 28, 2009 Author Posted January 28, 2009 also, dsm, accept pm's again. I wanted to send you something the other day but I couldnt. And im allergic to myspace right now.
MSUE Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 How about a new girl for you? Neither one of the jerks are worthy of your time so move on get a new girl and screw them. Although if I knew I could get away w it I'd slash both their tires.
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 How about a new girl for you? Neither one of the jerks are worthy of your time so move on get a new girl and screw them. Although if I knew I could get away w it I'd slash both their tires. EXACTLY! I love to hear people being REAL. You ADMIT if you could get away with it, you'd go slashin tires. You aren't one of these fake idiots who try to save face even though they're freaking anonymous.
IcemanJB Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 Target shooting is a great way to release anger. Nothing like blasting a 2 liter water bottle with a .44mag! BOOM. Soooo theraputic. Or blast some clay pigeons with a shotgun (need a friend to throw for you). I did this with my buddy after I was super pissed at the ex. Seriously, try it.
alwayssme Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 anger is part of the grieving process soo thats y
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