BlueHarvest Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 So girl I've been seeing for 3 months.... Not sure how to exactly make this day out of the ordinary for her. This'll be our first V-day together. I'm thinking of making dinner for her, but not sure. What else should I do? I've been mulling over some other ideas but wanted some random ideas from loveshack.org members to see if I could come up with a more "exotic" idea. (so to speak)
jerbear Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 Sounds like a great idea. What else has she been saying? Has she been dropping hints like places to go or things to do?
Lauriebell82 Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 Dinner sounds like a great idea! Light some candles too, she'll love it. Did you plan on buying her a present? At least get her some kind of card. If you did plan to buy her a present make it something small, maybe like a journal or a scarf.
carhill Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 Make her a card and cook her dinner. Make it a "dress up" dinner. Put effort into the presentation. Leave the rest to her imagination. You're a practical man, but a romantic one
Author BlueHarvest Posted January 28, 2009 Author Posted January 28, 2009 Make her a card and cook her dinner. Make it a "dress up" dinner. Put effort into the presentation. Leave the rest to her imagination. You're a practical man, but a romantic one Probably my greatest downfall as well. I got some issues, but I'm not gonan bring them up now. I'm gonna wait till V-day to see how things pan out. I guess making dinner is fine. She also hinted that all she wanted was this *specific* type of godiva choclate. (I'm also gonna get her a card and some flowers though.)
whichwayisup Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 What kind of humour does she have? Rent afew movies, (get a chick flick and a funny movie as well) and definately get that chocolate for her. Yum yum. I got some issues, but I'm not gonan bring them up now. What do you mean issues?
rainfall Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 I'm not big into valentine's day so I'm not sure if I will be much help. Maybe you could buy her some flowers or a cute stuffed animal as well as the candy she wanted. Then take her out to a nice dinner or cook for her. Why not ask her what she would like to do for that day?
Lucky_One Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 One of my favorite casual yet caring gifts for a girl is a scarf. (Maybe cashmere if you have some extra money.) But tell her it's to keep her warm when you aren't around. Girls like to feel like someone worries about them or thinks about them when you two are apart. She will likely also love your cooking for her. I dated a guy once who brought me a homemade chocolate pie for my birthday, which was our first date. It was still warm - he and I wouldn't have worked for life, but he is such a super nice guy and we are still friends.
Author BlueHarvest Posted January 29, 2009 Author Posted January 29, 2009 What do you mean issues? What do I mean? I mean this. Girls like to feel like someone worries about them or thinks about them when you two are apart. I think about her *almost* all the time. I however get the feeling that emotion isn't completely reciprocated.
carhill Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 As long as you're getting laid on a regular basis, for most males, it doesn't matter
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 As long as you're getting laid on a regular basis, for most males, it doesn't matter Now THERE'S some depth from Carhill. The dinner sounds great - along with renting some movies. However, I don't think watching TV/movies lets people interact with each other as much. I'm thinking like some kind of game that lets you two learn more about each other - I know they have like those type of dating games where you ask each other questions. I'm not sure about other activities with your RL being so new - I'm kinda there, myself.
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