agentzero Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 Hi guys, I met this girl in the book store and we clicked instantly. I found out that we where taking one of the same classes so I decided to play it cool and just wait to get the number(I know) a week later I asked her to lunch while I was rushing to another class. She ended up not showing. Next day I play it cool and she apoligizes and says something came up and she asked to exchange numbers. I was pissed about her missing and found out she had a rocky on and off again romance with a guy(Whom she always complained to me was a loser) +her possible sketchy past so I decided to let it go. Later she called me and offered to drive us to a college event. I ended up driving, we had a lot of fun and she said that I needed to let her buy me lunch. I decided to drop it due to the whole boyfriend thing. Despite this she continued flirting (heavy hand games etc.) Semester over. She recently broke up for good with this guy. To test the waters I send her a message asking her if she has any books I can borrow. She says she doesn't but sends me her new number says she's so glad to here from me and she'd love to hangout. I wait a week to call, tell her i'm heading to the mall and ask if she wants to do lunch. Excitedly she says that would be great but that she's meeting her uncle and newgirlfriend who are in town. She then says we need to work something out though and she'll give me a call. Did I go wrong somewhere. It's been 4 days should I give her a call? Thanks for all your help guys.
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 You didn't go wrong. She just isn't as interested as you are. I'd say she is only in the 30-40% interested range.
chrislovestosurf Posted January 29, 2009 Posted January 29, 2009 Right, from the information you provided, I would use the infamous saying, "shes just not that into you." Not yet at least. I could be wrong, but it sounds like she is still involved in some type of relationship, friends with benefits etc type of situation with another guy. It could be that she really DOES like you (seemed really excited to hear from you) but isnt telling you about someone else in her life and is possibly transitioning from that person to you. Since she said she needed to tell you that she has to work something through and hasnt called in 4 days then I would just let it go. DONT call her. Let her come to you (if she does at all). She sounds really flaky based on her actions. From my experience most girls at that age are so dont sweat it.
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