Viking Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 So, I met this girl online (she's legit and cute, and this one isn't a Russian). We've been exchanging emails for a little while now and she wanted to see a picture of me, so I sent one to her. She replied with something along the lines of, "You're cute!" She also offered up to send a few pics of herself (she sent 4 different photos). So, anyways, I get her number and called her Sunday to see if she'd be available one day this week to possibly get a bite to eat/get coffee. She said to text her the next day after I get done with class (we both go to school together). I texted her and she's got a bunch of homework to do because a group member dropped their class and left them hanging. I'm really quite busy this week except for Thursday during the day sometime. She said this about her week in a text, "Packed full all week I'm so busy it's ridiculous haha". My question is (since I was texting with her last night), do I tell her that Thursday would be a good day to meet up? I don't want to wait too long before meeting her because I work Friday, Saturday and Sunday. After work is too late for her and also not too reasonable (I get done working at 9PM, so meeting for the first time might be kinda hard). How/what do I do to not lose her interest? Do I text her tonight, tomorrow or what? I haven't talked to her since last night around 6PM and its almost 9PM now, so over a day ago is the last time I texted her. What should my move(s) be? Thanks for reading!
Author Viking Posted January 28, 2009 Author Posted January 28, 2009 Never mind, we ended up texting for about 3 hours...don't know if this is good or bad. But I initiated it by asking her if she wanted to play a "game" and then did the "what's your favorite..." or "describe your dream day" etc. I eventually asked her if she had time to do coffee or lunch on Thursday and she replied that she'd let me know, so it went from a "I'm really busy this week" to an "I'll let you know what time works for me". Should I be happy or what? Is this a confirmation of interest? Or is she just "squeezing" me into a schedule? I think she's quite interesting and would like to get to know her better, but I'll have to see her intentions later. She described an awesome dream day, and then asked me what mine would be. I would assume that her doing that was an IOI because she was willing to work with my busy schedule? Thanks again!
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