Dlyrica Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 Well...I broke up with my bf of about 3 years approximately 2 months ago. He is emotionally abusive and basically just treated me like crap because he knew he could get away with it. At first I was very firm with him and told him that I didn't think we should talk because it hurts us both and doesn't help anything. I would not text him but when he texted me I would respond (he never called.) I started kind of dating a different bf from about 5 years ago that I've always been friends with. I was doing pretty well I thought and just focusing on getting over the break-up and being happy. Lately, though, I've been having a really difficult time. I keep missing him even though I know how bad he treated me. We actually hung out a few times like 2 weeks ago (which was a horrible decision.) After we hung out a few times he told me he couldn't see himself with me anymore b/c I had been with someone else while I was single. He basically just makes me feel guilty for everything I've done while I've been single. I just want to get over him and stop having these stupid fallbacks which lead to absolutely NOTHING. I can't help but get jealous when I see pictures of him with other girls but I dont take it up with him personally b/c I know he has every right to do whatever he wants. I just need some inspiration to find a happy spot and NOT contact him when I feel lonely or needy. Help...
HEARTBROKENHURT Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 Of course ur gonna be jealous u can't stand for him to be with someone else u still love and care for him. When he says he can't get back with u he's using that as a front to lead u on until he can find someone better trust me babe.
ITSTIMETOMOVEON Posted January 28, 2009 Posted January 28, 2009 STOP BEING POLITE AND BITCH THE MOTHER F**KER OUT. HE'S A DITZ AND YOU DESERVE BETTER. MOVE ON TO SOMETHING BETTER. AREN"T YOU TIRED OF WHAT HAPPENED. Hey I'm to the point - but it's what you got to do.
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