Poll: Which is better - Intercourse or Cuddling Afterwards

[andrewrost3241981]

Hi,

 

I have never had sex before (I don't plan on having sex until I find the right girl and I am married - that's just the way I am). Although I think that BOTH sex and cuddling will be very enjoyable, in my mind I think that cuddling would be more enjoyable, getting to be very affectionate and loving to my wife . What do find more enjoyable, the actual sex or cuddling afterwards?

[Trialbyfire]

I enjoy them both and are, for me, a must. It's why the tactile and empathetical nature of a man are on my checklist for potential mates.

[fral945]

I vote intercourse only because it is less frequent (and because I'm a guy). I've never dated a women who wasn't in the mood to cuddle, even when no sex was involved. But I have dated many women who weren't always in the mood for sex. Very frustrating.

[clv0116]

I don't see the sex followed by oral followed by more sex option - that's what gets my vote. We can collapse in a tangle of sweaty meat afterwards. Call it a cuddle if you like.

[burning 4 revenge]

I vote intercourse only because it is less frequent (and because I'm a guy). I've never dated a women who wasn't in the mood to cuddle, even when no sex was involved. But I have dated many women who weren't always in the mood for sex. Very frustrating.

women dont want to cuddle with me, they use me for my body and then just throw me away

[allina]

I'm a horrible cuddler I enjoy it a great deal but not for too long. After a certain amount of time I'm like, ok move, my leg itches, my arm is asleep, I'm too hot and I have to pee. I think I may enjoy intercourse more.

[fral945]

women dont want to cuddle with me, they use me for my body and then just throw me away

 

Wanna trade?

[D-Lish]

Intercourse all the way. I don't need to cuddle after sex- although I find most guys do.

 

I actually enjoy cuddling in the morning. My ex was a cuddle hound- he was always needing to be touching me in bed- usually had me in a strangle hold.

 

One good thing about snuggling in the morning is that is leads to more sex. Which I love.

[quankanne]

cuddling, because I've always been more tactile than not. Intercourse is great, but alas, it just doesn't last long enough to get much out of it than a big bang (and that's if it works out right)

[boldjack]

Cuddling and sex are two sides of the same coin. One almost always leads to the other, unless , of course, you're in the mall,church or center ice at a REdwings game. Being together, touching, sweating, LOVING, holding, tasting. Dude, you've got a lot to look forward to. Good luck

[Green]

naked cuddling is pretty great but jizzing into a girls cooch is the best. And you'll most likely never be turned down for cudling but could get turned down for sex so its also more rare.

[runner]

i'm not big into cuddling after sex. late at night we usually just fall asleep right after, or, in the morning, jump right into the shower and get ready for work.

 

i'm all for cuddling on the couch while watching a movie though

[Geishawhelk]

naked cuddling is pretty great but jizzing into a girls cooch is the best. And you'll most likely never be turned down for cudling but could get turned down for sex so its also more rare.

 

 

"....Jizzing into a girl's cooch"...??

 

No contest.

Both my partner and I enjoy both. in fact, he's a greater cuddler than I am, though I'm up for it when he cuddles.

We fit. in every way, we just fit. Jizz, cooch, cuddle. All good.

[Still Trying]

Hi,

 

I have never had sex before (I don't plan on having sex until I find the right girl and I am married - that's just the way I am). Although I think that BOTH sex and cuddling will be very enjoyable, in my mind I think that cuddling would be more enjoyable, getting to be very affectionate and loving to my wife . What do find more enjoyable, the actual sex or cuddling afterwards?

 

Cuddling. Don't get me wrong, I have needs but I find it easier to get good sex, finding someone who's willing to cuddle and express intimacy in that way is harder to find for me.

 

Sex is over-rated. Don't let any one on this forum, or elsewhere, tell you differently. Making love on the other hand...