OCCDAVE Posted January 26, 2009 Posted January 26, 2009 I text my ex who dumped me of almost 3 years and she said i can pick up my stuff on friday.Now i am really nervous cause i still have some angry about how she just left me hanging without closure.Its been 2 months since i have seen her face despite the fact she claims i was camping in front of her house but that was to get me to break nc which i didn't.I know i shouldnt overthink things but how do i hold myself from starting a convo with her.Sure i am trying to move on but im left with so many what if's and stuff ill never know .Anyway i would like everyones advice how to handle this.
Geishawhelk Posted January 26, 2009 Posted January 26, 2009 Send someone in your place. Seriously. If you are fretting this much, it's gonna kill you. Or at the very least, take someone with you, and make them promise to shut you up and tell you to keep it zipped if you so much as say anything to her.....
Tryng2Trust08 Posted January 26, 2009 Posted January 26, 2009 I would have someone go for you, I wouldnt go back there since you are still feeling anger. It will bring out too much emotion in you.
Author OCCDAVE Posted January 26, 2009 Author Posted January 26, 2009 Well I could send a friend or family member but ppl keep telling me I should go.they said it will look better on my part to show my face and act like im over her instead of hiding behind a friend to get my stuff.
nature Posted January 26, 2009 Posted January 26, 2009 I should go.they said it will look better on my part to show my face and act like im over her instead of hiding behind a friend to get my stuff. Bullsh*t. It will look better if you don't go. It will look like you don't want to see her face. Listen to yourself. Not your friends or family. They just don't want to deal with it. Either get someone to go for you, or ask your ex to put your stuff in a box and leave it outside her house/apt. you shouldn't have to see her or talk to her or look at her or anything.
ColorCube Posted January 26, 2009 Posted January 26, 2009 Well I could send a friend or family member but ppl keep telling me I should go.they said it will look better on my part to show my face and act like im over her instead of hiding behind a friend to get my stuff. I thought you were over her?, If you are then go get your stuff if you are not then send a friend.
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