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He won't stop crossing my mind, everywhere I look around my house, it reminds me of him. The things he bought me, I keep seeing. I have so many other things going on in my life I have to deal with rather than him. How do I forget about him?

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I feel for you. Everywhere I go, every movie I see, everything reminds me of her.

 

Well, it did. But things change. Time changes you. Right now, those things remind you of him because he's fresh in your mind. Your mind must make new memories and have new days and nights without him, and you'll slowly stop being reminded of him, because there's been time for those things to remind you of the more recent memories where he has been gone.

 

Does that make sense?

 

Time will heal.

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Throw stuff out.

Move house.

 

You're doing this to yourself, completely voluntarily.

To make changes, you have to - make them.

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I know I have to make the changes and thats fine. I just want the memory of him erased. I have made many changes in my life, gone through a cheating husband, divorce with young children, etc...I have adjusted fairly well and I know Im gonna get over the guy, I just want it to be right now.

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