=( How can i tell if my Girlfriend is cheating on me!!!?

[djoker678]

Look, me and my girlfriend have been on and off for about two years. For a while now i have had the gut feeling, but i always pushed it off to the side. she really gets me down all of the time, she makes me feel like ****. lately for the past month or so, she has been giving me little or no affection, no sex(we used to do it so much and it stopped suddenly), she is always fighting with me about something i'm doing wrong, hanging out with her best friend more than me when she used to want to spend every second with me. she doesnt mind anymore when i hang out with my friends all day or something and she never really asks if i want to hang out with her anymore; pretty much just not acting like a girlfriend at all. i cant stand it any more. i feel like she is cheating because honestly she cheated on her last boyfriend with me. thats how our relationship started. she was going out with him for a year, and then she started lying to him, not kissing him as much not having sex with him, not showing him any affection and i just really need some advice of some insight on what i should do. i really need some help with this, i cant take it any more. its just making me so depressed how i have a girlfriend, yet she isnt my girlfriend anymore =/

[Bryanp]

It seems pretty obvious that you have a girlfriend in name only. She is doing to you exactly what she did to her previous boyfriend. Remember the old saying: If they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you!

 

It is time to move on and find someone who can respect you because she does not. If you do not respect yourself then who will?

[Geishawhelk]

What you do is sever all contact with her in every which way possible. Keep as silent as the grave for as long as it takes - for her to contact you -

and ask - "hey what's up? I haven't heard from you lately!"

 

To which you reply -

"Oh, haven't you heard? You're history! have a great life! Bye!"

 

And go out get some fun, instead of moping and fretting.

 

Is it worth it?

 

No, thought not.

[georgejungle]

really gets me down all of the time, she makes me feel like ****.

 

so why are you even with her?

 

This is what i don't understand about some couples...If the other

person makes you feel like crap, why stay???

[JennaGennaro]

djoker, it sounds like you might have been given a taste of your own medicine (from what you did to her former BF). I feel sorry for you, but not that much.

 

Follow the others' advice and stop contact or break it off completely. You don't have much of a relationship to begin with as you said it is on and off. Plus, it was built on a lie (infidelity) in the first place.

 

Learn from this, become a better person (don't cheat with someone else's gf) and find yourself a nice girl who is not already attached. You are not the worst person in the world, you just made a mistake. The real mistake would be staying in this mess only to have it be back on for a little while and then have these suspicions a few months down the road.