Trialbyfire Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 Contact keeps the burner warm. He sounds like a "Wolf" type of guy. Maybe a "Viking". Lots of burners and excellent simmer control Only with the right kind of prey-mate! Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 I don't think so.. men, even more than women, will say stuff like that to get only a F buddy. Its funny when a man approaches you with 100% genuine desire to be with you and you guys think he's trying to get an F-buddy because others tell you so or aren't interested - and then when the time comes that you are looking for that genuineity, its too late. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 Only with the right kind of prey-mate! Heck, my pilot went out. Can you re-light me? :D Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 Heck, my pilot went out. Can you re-light me? :D Only if you're not looking for a relationship - said the shewolf! Link to post Share on other sites
Author d0ll Posted January 26, 2009 Author Share Posted January 26, 2009 Contact keeps the burner warm. He sounds like a "Wolf" type of guy. Maybe a "Viking". Lots of burners and excellent simmer control Only with the right kind of prey-mate! Heck, my pilot went out. Can you re-light me? :D Only if you're not looking for a relationship - said the shewolf! i'm glad you're both having fun on someone elses problem. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 i'm glad you're both having fun on someone elses problem. There's something being communicated in those posts, whether you want to admit it or not. Guy: I'm not looking for a relationship...but...I'll do you. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 No worries; and, hey, give the pot an occasional stir and you're golden. A good sauce likes the TLC OP, we're making light here, but it's a humorous way of getting a very important point across. You're in charge of YOU. You know your truth. He knows his. If/When he's ready to offer you what you want, there will be no ambiguity Link to post Share on other sites
Author d0ll Posted January 26, 2009 Author Share Posted January 26, 2009 No worries; and, hey, give the pot an occasional stir and you're golden. A good sauce likes the TLC OP, we're making light here, but it's a humorous way of getting a very important point across. You're in charge of YOU. You know your truth. He knows his. If/When he's ready to offer you what you want, there will be no ambiguity I'm sorry I couldn't read in between the lines of your posts I only understand straight foward things Link to post Share on other sites
Author d0ll Posted January 27, 2009 Author Share Posted January 27, 2009 'I'm not ready for a relationship' translated means, 'I don't want a relationship with YOU'.... I say this to guys I'm not interested in. I think it's different when a guy says it. Most guys will straight up tell you you're only friends, girls try to make it sweet. Link to post Share on other sites
tincanman99 Posted January 27, 2009 Share Posted January 27, 2009 I think you are over analyzing it. And it doesnt mean he doesnt like your nor is looking for a f-buddy. I am a guy, guys are straight up MOST of the time (not all the time). You ask what color the sky is a guy will say blue. A woman will turn around and ask what did you mean by that . That being said, I would take him at face value. He is really busy right now and does not have time to have a relationship. Thats it. Dont listen to these people that say if he was really into you he would make the time. Not necessarily. I work in financial services and if I tell you I dont have any time I literally mean I dont have any time . My advice is dont get hung up on him. You want to be friendly and stay in touch thats fine but I think you should go date other men. You will be better off, trust me. Link to post Share on other sites
Lauriebell82 Posted January 27, 2009 Share Posted January 27, 2009 Read the book, "Why Men Love Bitches." Very eye-opening. Link to post Share on other sites
Author d0ll Posted January 27, 2009 Author Share Posted January 27, 2009 I think you are over analyzing it. And it doesnt mean he doesnt like your nor is looking for a f-buddy. I am a guy, guys are straight up MOST of the time (not all the time). You ask what color the sky is a guy will say blue. A woman will turn around and ask what did you mean by that . That being said, I would take him at face value. He is really busy right now and does not have time to have a relationship. Thats it. Dont listen to these people that say if he was really into you he would make the time. Not necessarily. I work in financial services and if I tell you I dont have any time I literally mean I dont have any time . My advice is dont get hung up on him. You want to be friendly and stay in touch thats fine but I think you should go date other men. You will be better off, trust me. Thank you. I don't feel the need to date other men I myself have things to take care of & cannot be bothered dating different guys. I rather be single. BUT whenever (if ever) HE wants to hang out or go out on a date i'd make an exception for him cause I know he's not looking for a **** buddy & he knows I don't 'hook-up' unless i'm in an actual relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
RRyan65 Posted January 27, 2009 Share Posted January 27, 2009 Read the book, "Why Men Love Bitches." Very eye-opening. ...and shoot yourself in the foot while you're at it. If by bitch the author means independent, then she should've gone with a better choice of words. A bitch is worthless, and only appeals to insecure men. Link to post Share on other sites
Author d0ll Posted January 27, 2009 Author Share Posted January 27, 2009 Read the book, "Why Men Love Bitches." Very eye-opening. I think those books are BS .. how can one person speak for all men/women? relationships are 50/50 you don't need the man to be begging at your feet nor do you have to be up his ass it's give & take Link to post Share on other sites
Author d0ll Posted January 28, 2009 Author Share Posted January 28, 2009 ...and shoot yourself in the foot while you're at it. If by bitch the author means independent, then she should've gone with a better choice of words. A bitch is worthless, and only appeals to insecure men. (blah blah more characters) Link to post Share on other sites
You'reasian Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 Thank you. I don't feel the need to date other men I myself have things to take care of & cannot be bothered dating different guys. I rather be single. BUT whenever (if ever) HE wants to hang out or go out on a date i'd make an exception for him cause I know he's not looking for a **** buddy & he knows I don't 'hook-up' unless i'm in an actual relationship. I like your attitude Link to post Share on other sites
Author d0ll Posted January 28, 2009 Author Share Posted January 28, 2009 I like your attitude Aw thanks Link to post Share on other sites
joh2141 Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 I don't think so.. men, even more than women, will say stuff like that to get only a F buddy. He meant that guys are more blunt about their opinions when they share it. Then, there are guys who scheme and scheme. You never know. This guy MIGHT not be telling the truth. In all honesty, it will usually be true. Right now, I'm dealing with a girl who likes me but doesn't want a relationship. The biggest stress about it is that I love her to death. Link to post Share on other sites
tincanman99 Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 Thank you. I don't feel the need to date other men I myself have things to take care of & cannot be bothered dating different guys. I rather be single. BUT whenever (if ever) HE wants to hang out or go out on a date i'd make an exception for him cause I know he's not looking for a **** buddy & he knows I don't 'hook-up' unless i'm in an actual relationship. My advice to you is to periodically touch base with him. If you want to do it every other week, etc... whatever works for you. That way you stay fresh in his mind. Just keep your expectations low. If you have low expectations you wont be disappointed. Dont become overly emotionally involved because you will end up pining over him which is not good. Look at it positively - there is a whole world of guys out there. If its not this one, it will be another one. Link to post Share on other sites
Author d0ll Posted January 28, 2009 Author Share Posted January 28, 2009 My advice to you is to periodically touch base with him. If you want to do it every other week, etc... whatever works for you. That way you stay fresh in his mind. Just keep your expectations low. If you have low expectations you wont be disappointed. Dont become overly emotionally involved because you will end up pining over him which is not good. Look at it positively - there is a whole world of guys out there. If its not this one, it will be another one. We actually haven't talked since Sunday .. if he comes online it's for like 10 mins & that's it .. so I guess he really is busy Link to post Share on other sites
Author d0ll Posted January 29, 2009 Author Share Posted January 29, 2009 More of me complaining: Since Sunday he has been online for no more than 10 mins at a time & has not even said hello once ... Link to post Share on other sites
Author d0ll Posted January 30, 2009 Author Share Posted January 30, 2009 More of me complaining: Since Sunday he has been online for no more than 10 mins at a time & has not even said hello once ... I can't sleep & I pretty much give up on him Link to post Share on other sites
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