I never thought I'd visit Loveshack again but here I am...

[GoGators2008]

So last September my ex and I broke up, mainly because she moved away, not far a few hrs but still distance. We hung out as friends a few times after that, and it didn't feel right to me so I cut off all contact with her for 3 months.

 

Well, she's moved back to my hometown and texts me everyday wanting to hang out, giving clues like what r u doin, what time u get off, etc etc. I hung out with her last night and I didn't like it very much. Not because I didn't like her company but because everytime she got close I felt myself wanting to hold her, and it brought back all the memories of when we were together and it put me in a bad mood cuz it reminds u of what u had and what u don't have now.

 

She called me 5 times one day but I didn't pick up cuz I was busy and couldn't pick up the phone. It seems like she really wants to hang out. It was easy when she was outta town cutting off contact with her but now that she's in town it's driving me crazy because something in the back of my mind lets me know that she is a 5 min drive away and she really wants to hang out with you. And if I don't answer her text/calls, surely she will come find me cuz she knows exactly where I am.

 

Is this a sign that I should I try to get back with her? Or should I cut off all contact with her? Any other advice would be great. Thanks.

[jerbear]

I suggest limited contact and do tell her that.

 

You two are broken up and she can't expect you to drop everything just to spend time with her or talk to her.