luverly Posted January 25, 2009 Posted January 25, 2009 I've posted alot on here because I just broke up with someone and my sister is having some problems, so I thought I'd post for her. She has been living with her BF for 2 years and together about 3. She wants to be a nurse and nursing school is hard to get into a program directly. She was put on a waiting list in the beginning of her relationship and now it's time for her to attend...finally. She starts this August in her hometown that they moved away from. The problem is her BF doesn't want to move back even though it's a 2 year program. So he would rather be in a LDR for 2 years 1,000 miles away than move back. She told him they could leave again where ever he wants to go after the 2 years. He can transfer his job to where she is attending, so his job isn't an excuse and he has no friends where he is. His only excuse is simply "he just doesn't want to". She needs to do the nursing school so she can quit working crappy jobs, so she and him can have a future. He knows this. Do you think he is being ridiculous? I do and have told her this, but she thinks it's ok. I think it's shady and selfish and don't want my sister to be hurt.
jerbear Posted January 25, 2009 Posted January 25, 2009 Nope. College, even 2 year programs, can change ones life. Let them go do their things and after 2 years... lets see if both of them are on the same path. Otherwise just two people passing in the night and they'll find others.
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