lilmrcheerful Posted January 25, 2009 Posted January 25, 2009 Hi, It's been 9 days since my gf broke up with me and I have been trying to keep active as much as possible which is the correct thing to do. The only problem with this is that with certain things I am struggling to be happy doing such as going out in the evening whether for a drink or to watch a movie, for example, last night I went to watch a film and I really didn't cope great with it not only because the Cinema itself reminded of us, there's people kissing and holding hands which really didn't help matters. Right now I don't want to see couples being all mushy unless they are family. Do you think I am doing too many things at once? The thing is, I am quite happy staying in until I heal, I have plenty to do in the home but then it sort of secludes me from the rest of the world and I feel like I am missing out on something, sounds stupid but really I can't face the outside world much right now. I know that everybody heals in different ways and I am still really trying to find my way of coping properly but so far everything seems to be overwhelming a bit like contacting old friends. Thanks for reading.
BikerBeagle Posted January 25, 2009 Posted January 25, 2009 It's only been 9 days ...give it a little more time. Staying busy is good, but it's unrealistic to say that this alone will keep you from thinking about her ...you won't stop, but I'm sure at some point in the movie, you weren't ...those small moments of time are what you are aiming for.
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