simplyb33 Posted January 25, 2009 Posted January 25, 2009 so i met this boy named josh when i was 14 and he was 18 i am now 16 and he is now 19 and almost 20 when we first met it was great i fell for him so hard and so FAST he had like a spell on me lol weird but true.and at first it seemed as if i really mattered to him he was at me house when ever he could be he would always call me around one just wanting me to go outside to say hi and everything. and not before long everything went tumbling town hill. I figured out he was the type to go car hoping and everything like that.he did a couple things that werent right at ALL. SO him being 18 got kicked out of his parents house and me feeling horrible for him begged my parents to let him sleep on the couch in the living room. and they let him. we grew so close after only a couple weeks.i wouldnt even let him kiss me for atleast two weeks and he still hung around. so for me ment he must be interested. he even bought me a promise ring. but not before long i figured out he cheated on me with a girl and he ****ed her while he was at it.it hurt sooo bad. but it was only two weeks so im like screw it he didnt know i would mean this much to him then after all of it we were together for like 4 months when i decided to give my virginity up to this guy.And to this day he is the only guy ive "been" with. AND not then i figured out he started texting the girl he cheated on me with and the trick behind this story is he took her virginity the day before he asked me out how messed up is that??? ya. and so whatever he started texting her tellin her he wanted to **** her agian and of coarse i forgave him and made him change his number. Then we were good for a while and then i was looking on his phone one day when i found naked pictures of the girl he was with before he was with me and mannnn i was discusted. Again i forgave him. Finally he cheated on me again with a different girl he was sending naked pictures to this fat ass bitch who talks like her nose is plugged constintly OMG it hurts so bad. and of coarse i broke up with him and a couples months went by and i missed his touch soooo bad. I LOVE HIM. And after a while we started talking again. We werent going to date but we promised each other we wouldnt see ANYONE ELSE. and of coarse he did. and of coarse i stopped talking to him for another month and once again he keeps crawlen back. and ive been with him for 8 more months and all together a year and 5 months and he has not done anything. but i always accuse him of stuff and DONT trust him. and he always gets mad that i dont trust him SHOULD I TRUST HIM HOW DO I GET OVER ALL THIS STUPID ****? HELP. THANKS, BRITTANY
wuggle Posted January 25, 2009 Posted January 25, 2009 NO you can't trust him., he has cheated on you countless times and will continue to. Leave him, go to college and take up English lessons, then when you have graduated find a nice person who respects you.
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 25, 2009 Posted January 25, 2009 LOL - I agree with Wuggle...the WHOLE post. But anyway - NO - you have shown him already that you don't deserve respect by forgiving him and forgiving him and forgiving. He doesn't respect you and he canNOT be trusted. So you basically have two options - stay with him with FULL KNOWLEDGE that he will NEVER be faithful, or get some self-respect and dump the punk. The relationship has been forever altered - the trust will never return. No matter how much time goes by or how much he does to try and prove to you that he's being faithful, there will ALWAYS be a small doubt in the back of your mind somewhere. But he doesn't appear to me to have the capacity to be faithful. Just because HE says he hasn't done anything doesn't mean he really hasn't. Do you really want to risk an STD that could alter the rest of your life over such a loser?
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