Ramrod Posted January 26, 2009 Posted January 26, 2009 Use her and then discard her, that's all she is good for. A quick f*ck and chuck. Let some chud get into a relationship with the damaged b*tch. I've reviewed your postings, your not very intelligent, articulate or kind. Are you sure you really want the kind of karma your inviting? Why do you hate women so much?
Dumbledore Posted January 26, 2009 Posted January 26, 2009 I've reviewed your postings, your not very intelligent, articulate or kind. There's a certain irony in that sentence. Somewhere.
JerseyShortie Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 Strong men are not going to honor or respect a woman who isn't honorable or respectful herself - they might be a gentleman, but a woman has to demonstrate this first. What does this have to do with throwing around terms like "cum dumpster"? don't care if the girl is direspectful to herself. That unfortunetly is her issue and one I hope she fixes. She is still a human being. Your actions and words are not conditional on how others act and behave. You are incharge of yourself. I think it's rather ironic that some men think they are *better* yet throw around terms like "cum dumpter" and that's suppose to be okay. Sorry. Not Okay. Not okay even if the girl has slept or bj'ed alot of men. The kind of lanuage a man uses about a woman tells alot about how he ultimately feels about women and about the man himself. There are alot of men on this board that don't feel the need to use such terms. A strong man or woman offers repect to people. He doesn't base it on conditions on who he judges is worthy or not worhty of it. Especially to someone who has not disrespected him in the least. Her giving bj's to other men is not one ounce a disrespect to him. It has nothing to do with him. It's the times when we give something of ourselves, such as respect to others, that is most difficult, that speaks about our character then the times when it is easy to do so. So regardless of the girls actions, although I hope she learns to respect herself, it doesn't give guys such as the OP the right to refer to women in such really degrading and misgonistic terms. It says alot about the type of men that do. Every year things get a little worse it seems. And second of all, stop assuming that all males see pig-headed actions done by males as A-OKAY in their book. You're so quick to attack the male sex that you come off as gender biased/sexist. You don't justify some broad's disgusting actions by taking pot shots at certain male activities that don't even apply to the context of the thread. I have to admit that I often find men stick together on these kind of things *most* of the time. I see alot of double standards with guys that it's okay for them to get theirs and they are somehow better but if a girl goes out and gets hers, she is a slut. I don't think women are so far off in thinking that men aren't always exactly fair about these kind of things.
Author Throne Of Lies Posted January 27, 2009 Author Posted January 27, 2009 Myself and others have addressed this at least thrice. Please read all the posts before ranting. Your concerns have been DIRECTLY addressed in earlier posts. Read them. Please. Once you have, THEN slag off whoever you want, but throwing accusations around when you have ignored big parts of the dialog is either dumb, lazy, or both.
clv0116 Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 She's gone to a lot of trouble to polish her technique. Among other things she polished.
Island Girl Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 That's actually not true, you can get herpes and HPV (among other STDs) from giving / receiving oral sex. The only mitigator is using a condom /female condom when giving receiving oral sex. Which is not to say you won't get it, just that the chance will be reduced. Thank you -- I was going to post this It deserves reading and rereading since apparently many people out there do not KNOW this. <scarey!> For those of you out there that get Cold Sores: http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_body/skin_stuff/cold_sores.html It is Herpes Simplex 1. End of story. It is a virus and, although common, not everybody has it. I have never had a cold sore because I don't have the virus. And I am sick to death of people who HAVE the virus not even knowing that they have it. Sadly speaks of basic medical knowledge.
Surfer Dude Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 Thank you -- I was going to post this It deserves reading and rereading since apparently many people out there do not KNOW this. <scarey!> For those of you out there that get Cold Sores: http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_body/skin_stuff/cold_sores.html It is Herpes Simplex 1. End of story. It is a virus and, although common, not everybody has it. I have never had a cold sore because I don't have the virus. And I am sick to death of people who HAVE the virus not even knowing that they have it. Sadly speaks of basic medical knowledge. Approximately 80% of people have oral herpes, they just don't know it. If you've kissed more than a few people in your lifetime, there is a huge chance you got it. Most people don't know they have it, because they never had an outbreak, but the virus still lives inside the body.
Princess_in_love Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 Sounds completely normal to me. High school is one big party for most people. Anyway, you can't catch anything from oral, so it's just like kissing. Ummmmm Yes you CAN catch many things from oral. Where did you hear that you can't?
mr.dream merchant Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 What does this have to do with throwing around terms like "cum dumpster"? don't care if the girl is direspectful to herself. That unfortunetly is her issue and one I hope she fixes. She is still a human being. Your actions and words are not conditional on how others act and behave. You are incharge of yourself. I think it's rather ironic that some men think they are *better* yet throw around terms like "cum dumpter" and that's suppose to be okay. Sorry. Not Okay. Not okay even if the girl has slept or bj'ed alot of men. The kind of lanuage a man uses about a woman tells alot about how he ultimately feels about women and about the man himself. There are alot of men on this board that don't feel the need to use such terms. A strong man or woman offers repect to people. He doesn't base it on conditions on who he judges is worthy or not worhty of it. Especially to someone who has not disrespected him in the least. Her giving bj's to other men is not one ounce a disrespect to him. It has nothing to do with him. It's the times when we give something of ourselves, such as respect to others, that is most difficult, that speaks about our character then the times when it is easy to do so. So regardless of the girls actions, although I hope she learns to respect herself, it doesn't give guys such as the OP the right to refer to women in such really degrading and misgonistic terms. It says alot about the type of men that do. Every year things get a little worse it seems. I have to admit that I often find men stick together on these kind of things *most* of the time. I see alot of double standards with guys that it's okay for them to get theirs and they are somehow better but if a girl goes out and gets hers, she is a slut. I don't think women are so far off in thinking that men aren't always exactly fair about these kind of things. You aren't getting my point. The same behavior that women look down on men for they are okaying with their own sex. Stop being gender biased. That's circular logic. "It's right because when men commit this wrong its right to them" That's ridiculous. Its wrong all together, regardless of sex. Stop whoring around and respect yourself and you'll get respect. The term "player", "manwhore", and whatever else can be just as offensive to a male as "cum dumpster" is to females. Stop with the generalizations and assumptions.
Dumbledore Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 Giving oral is completely safe. You're never going to catch anything that way.
boldjack Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 Throne, Time and people change. She might have had issues when she was in hs and this behavior was her response. I dated an ex -stripper for many years and she was absolutely the most loving, loyal, honest and straight woman I have ever met. I would have had no hesitation about marrying her and would have KNOWN she was totally mine. I will think about her forever. Don't judge this woman without getting to know her as she is today.
chrislovestosurf Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 Giving oral is completely safe. You're never going to catch anything that way. I hope you're kidding. You really need to do some research on STD's. Google is your friend, seriously. Please educate yourself for the good of others. Although less likely, you can even contract HIV from GIVING oral, among other nasties.
Lionblade Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 I hope you're kidding. You really need to do some research on STD's. Google is your friend, seriously. Please educate yourself for the good of others. Although less likely, you can even contract HIV from GIVING oral, among other nasties. Sarcasm is hard to detect on the internet, eh? By the way for the OP, she's still young & those activities you mentioned that she engaged in are not too long ago. Better to let her go and find someone more stable. Hopefully one that limits her self to one man per night .
Lishy Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 I would wonder at the mental health of a girl who gives BJ's to multiple guys infront of other people! Run Forest RUNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dumbledore Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 I would wonder at the mental health of a girl who gives BJ's to multiple guys infront of other people! Run Forest RUNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And here I was thinking you were the life of the party. Please don't tell me that you're as boring as this post suggests.
mr.dream merchant Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 Throne, Time and people change. She might have had issues when she was in hs and this behavior was her response. I dated an ex -stripper for many years and she was absolutely the most loving, loyal, honest and straight woman I have ever met. I would have had no hesitation about marrying her and would have KNOWN she was totally mine. I will think about her forever. Don't judge this woman without getting to know her as she is today. Okay well being a stripper and blowing multiple guys infront of everyone at a party are two different ballfields.
Lishy Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 And here I was thinking you were the life of the party. Please don't tell me that you're as boring as this post suggests. I know, I am a boring cow cos I just refuse to blow a multitude of men at a party! A real party pooper eh!!
Dumbledore Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 a multitude of men Sounds kind of classy when you put it like that.
Shygirl15 Posted January 27, 2009 Posted January 27, 2009 We would be having more significant discussions if we didn't turn every thread into a men vs. women situation, which is now becoming very boring, honestly.
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