ATR Posted January 24, 2009 Posted January 24, 2009 It's been over a month since we were last in contact, and a little longer since she ended it. Still i am thinking about her every day. We were together for 4 months, i was crazy about her. I had spent a year getting to know her before asking her out. We were in a LDR you see, she said she couldnt take it anymore. Then i find out she is now with the guy who she told me nothing would ever happen with. I can just imagine them two having fun, while i'm left here alone. Some days i am over her, then at other times it just gets my mood down. I am telling myself that in a couple of months i will contact her again and try friendship. I just miss talking to her, friendship could still offer that?
Ronni_W Posted January 24, 2009 Posted January 24, 2009 in a couple of months i will contact her again and try friendship. I just miss talking to her, friendship could still offer that? I agree: waiting to see how you feel in a couple of months...and staying 'no contact' and getting on with your own life in the meantime...is probably your best bet for right now. Problem with that "friendship" is gonna be that, while you will at least get to hear her voice, you'll be hearing it tell you all the fun stuff that she's doing with her new guy in her new life. Besides, a "friendship" is a poor substitute when what we really want from that person is something much closer, more intimate, more fulfilling. Sorry you're hurting.
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