Knight_Ctrl Posted January 24, 2009 Posted January 24, 2009 I have been cheated on in every significant(3) relationships I've ever been in. WTF. =(.......
EmperorR Posted January 24, 2009 Posted January 24, 2009 Damn that sucks, does it ever get easier? I always think now that I've been through it once and feel better months later if I was ever cheated on again I could make it out ok
Author Knight_Ctrl Posted January 24, 2009 Author Posted January 24, 2009 I dunno, they've all been so different. The first one was a straight whore, I should have known better than to date in the first place. The second one I never thought would cheat on me but did. And I didn't find out until after we broke up And now the most recent one, as far as I know never had sex with this guy. But lined him right up and started dating him and stuff while her and I were still together....and christ did I love her. This is the worst one of the bunch. Now I'm worried that I'm going to be that guy that always gets cheated on....=(.
neverlost Posted January 24, 2009 Posted January 24, 2009 Welcome to the club!! Just don't let it screw up future relationships thinking the next one will do the same. But, I know what you mean... I keep putting my hand back in the flames.. grr.. maybe one day it'll be ok... maybe.... just maybe -neverlost
Ronni_W Posted January 24, 2009 Posted January 24, 2009 I have been cheated on in every significant(3) relationships I've ever been in. WTF. =(....... Weird timing...just last night, I read this sentence: "[E]very result has to have a relationship to the cause." So. Where are you cheating yourself (and/or others)? Could be that you have not been true to yourself, betrayed your own values; or deceived yourself by not looking at a situation accurately, denied/ignored problems just to stay in that situation, or even exaggerated problems to get out of something. Lies of omission. Or cheated on your taxes . Anything along those lines are worth a second look, if you want to get deeper into your relationship pattern. The book, btw, is 'Ruling Your World: Ancient Strategies For Modern Life' by Sakyong Mipham. A highly recommendable read, even if one doesn't feel particularly drawn to the author's traditions.
thegoodlife Posted January 24, 2009 Posted January 24, 2009 It's sad but true, there are just some of us out there that get cheated on time and time again, even by what seem to be the most faithful and honest people. I'm right there with ya.
smookie Posted January 24, 2009 Posted January 24, 2009 You know there are reasons that the other person cheats. Some it is just in them never to be happy with what they have. Some do not get what they are looking for at home or with current relationship. Emotional support, Physical or mental. I know I am not a cheater but going through what I am going through it looks good. (posted in second chances).
Hersheys Posted January 25, 2009 Posted January 25, 2009 It's sad but true, there are just some of us out there that get cheated on time and time again, even by what seem to be the most faithful and honest people. I'm right there with ya. I'm beginning to think the same. I feel duped. Like some sick joke played on me. I hate it that they get away with it and go on living happily ever after with no thoughts of remorse or guilt.
Lizzie60 Posted January 25, 2009 Posted January 25, 2009 I have been cheated on in every significant(3) relationships I've ever been in. WTF. =(....... ..................oups misread the initial post.
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