Mea Culpa ...after 15 years !

[cat-power]

Yep...thats right, after 15 years my ex calls me out of the blue (i've been off the radar living in different countries) to say he was wrong ! dead right he was !

 

I was 24 (he 32), held him off for at least 4-5 months..but finally gave in. His divorce wasn't even final yet (papers came thru while we were together) we spent nearly every day together, and weekends were spent in his house (with the ex calling every 5 mins) Then, after 6months, he tells me he's met someone else...but wants to remain friends I was crushed, broke all contact and never saw/talked to him since. Did gather from the grapevine that he moved in with her after 1 month.

 

Now...since he married (!!!!) a woman who's in parlement in my country, he's become somewhat of a celibrety...so I knew about the wedding.

 

He calls me 2 days ago, tells me he's sorry for what happened, how it was all his fault (YES IT WAS !)and he wants to meet me. We talked on the phone for 1 hour, just catching up, but man....havent slept for 2 days. Not because I want him back, but wondering what he's up to !

 

So what's this ? trying to clear his consience ? or what ? what's his game !

[prettybaby]

It's sad that you care.

[cat-power]

Yeah right, like you wouldn't wonder why a guy that dumped you would resurface after 15 years.

[pandagirl]

Yeah right, like you wouldn't wonder why a guy that dumped you would resurface after 15 years.

 

ha!

 

It's interesting, I was just talking to some friends last night about people from our past. I think there are just certain people you have a connection/bond to, and even though you know in your heart it's not meant to be, you occasionally want to make sure that connection is/was real.

 

As for why your ex contacted you after FIFTEEN years, who knows? I wouldn't read into it too much, but take it as a nice gesture on his part. You obviously meant something to him. But, if it's bothering you or messing with your mind/heart, I'd just ignore him and let it be.