Goatsbreath Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 well, today's day 5 NC and I have today off work. These days I have off work are usually the days I go do something stupid like drive by her new apartment or something equally dumb. Last time I drove by I went out of my way to get guitar stings from this place just so I could drive by her place but have a reason. Stupid cuz there is a store closer to me....haha. Oh well, I'm surely not calling. No way, no how. I wish I had more money, money is holding me back from doing the things I want to do. For instance, I would like to join a gym but I fear I don't have the extra income for another bill at this time. Not only am I trying to recover from a relationship but I'm also trying to restore some financial stability that I lost. Ah well, I'm just venting over some coffee.
IcemanJB Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 Hey man, hang in there! I'm on day 62 (I think...) of NC, and I'm doing so well it's amazing. I never thought I'd be this far along after only 2 months of not having any contact with her. Just keep it up and no more driving by her apartment...yes, I've done it too haha. Everyone wishes they had more money...just be more anal about how you spend, and I'm sure you'll find a way to pay for a gym membership. I'm trying to do the same thing, actually.
neverlost Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 Day 62? 62 days of no contact sounds scary... like all hope is lost... even though hope is probably lost from day 1 I have everyday off work at the moment, I'm on sick. I just can't even get up in the mornings let alone face work. I do stupid things on these days too... I forget what she has done to me and dream of holding her. Keep up the the NC -neverlost
IcemanJB Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 Day 62? 62 days of no contact sounds scary... like all hope is lost... even though hope is probably lost from day 1 I have everyday off work at the moment, I'm on sick. I just can't even get up in the mornings let alone face work. I do stupid things on these days too... I forget what she has done to me and dream of holding her. Keep up the the NC -neverlost It helps that I TOLD her to not contact me anymore. I think it would have been harder if I just stopped responding to her and she eventually stopped trying. Sort of on my terms if you know what I mean. But if you make the decision, it's all or nothing! You gotta stick with it.
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