sarasmile07 Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 (I am posting this here, cause the Sexual thing I don't think would have worked well) Anyway...I have an almost 3 year old daughter, and I have been with the same guy for almost 4 years. Now here is my dilema, I have NO sex drive at all! I have talked to docs, friends, fam...but everyone says the same thing "its normal"...so my question is... Is it possible I just lost my sex drive due to having kids...or am I just not attracted to my man anymore. Because in all honesty, I do notice that I don't want to be close to him, touch him, or anything, let alone be intimate. I feel terrible and I know it frustrates him, but I could care less about it.... But that is also where it comes back to, could I just be so tired from waking at 8-9am with an almost 3 year old, then going to work at 6pm and not getting home until 3am, cause Iknow they say that no sleep can mess up your sex drive! So your call people.. 1) Kids 2) No physical attraction 3) No Sleep 4) all of the above! LOL! Thanks Everyone!
steveraves Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 Well only you know if you have "No physcical attraction." Do you? I believe people go through phases where their sex drive is lower for no real reason. In your situation it sounds to me like your schedule certainly isn't helping. So my guess would be 3, followed by 1 because having kids takes up alot of our time. Time that can't be used elsewhere..
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