dillema Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 Two years back I met this guy who just broke up with his gf when I just got out of a 5 year relationship with my ex,. Both of us were pretty upset but We hit it off , enjoyed each others company and spent a lot of time together. Im not sure if it was just the loneliness in our lives at that point but the attraction was definitely there. We got drunk this one night and I called him by my ex boyfriends name in the middle of having sex and he was hurt I could tell because we just stopped it then and there. I apologized and and we did sleep together on a few rare occasions after. We talked about "us" and he told me that I was too good for him. Which I translated to he didnt really like me enough to go out with me. I moved away a few weeks later and told a common friend that I thought he was insensitive. It was a way of making me feel better because I didnt want to be rejected. We continued being in touch once in a blue moon with courtesy texts. But I moved back last week and we started hanging out again. I defintely like him but I know better than to expect anything. he casuallymentioned that he talked to this common friend to whom I bitched abt him. He has been hinting at it and Im thinking its been two years, Ive forgotten all that I said! and also surprized that he shld bring it up? does that mean that he cared abt what i said? I want to apologizw because I do consider him a friend But havnt had an oppurtunity. But I dont know what to think abt him. Did he say he didnt like me because he though I wasnt over my ex? And also I am overweight, could that be a reason too?
Davey McG Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 If a guy thought you were unattractive because of your weight, he would be a lot less likely to sleep with you. What probably hurts is: you shouting your ex's name during sexyou bitching about him to others If your friend hinted at what you said (or downright told him after a drink or 2) then he's probably gonna be a bit annoyed. I would care if someone I cared about had criticized me to a friend. Just my thoughts. I don't know the guy so he may not have given those issues a second thought.
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