alxfeny Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 She doesn't seem to love me anymore...after 3 years! everything was going fine between us...we made plans, talked about getting marryed, haveing kids and so on! Suddenly...she feels different! she says that everything is ok...that we won't brake up, but she also says that she doesn't feel so attracted to me as she wonce felt! Istill love her with all my heart...i'm in great pain! we broke up before...just because she liked some other guy and i forgave her because i was stupid or because i loved her too much! she is verry beautyfull...i'm not that attractive! I asked her...shall we keep going on like this? She keeps telling me that things will be better...but i think she says that because she want's me to dump her...she allready dumped me 2 times...but came back to me! I'm very confused and scared...i feel that the end of us is near! i don't know how will i take this! it's not so good to give so much love and recive nothing! everybody tells me to leave her...but they don't know how it feels! my heart is damaged allready! Alex excuse my writing mistakes...i am from romania and it's pretty hard to write in english!
SRV Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Sorry for what you are going through. With time as we grow older, what we realize is that beauty is not only skin deep. It is how you treat and relate to people, compassion and emapthy projected from the inside out that becomes the total aggregate of true beauty. Everyone is attractive and you are too, you just have to look within you to find it, never for one minute think that you are not, because she had to have seen that in you for you to have had a relationship with her. Back to the matter at hand, she will only treat you the way you allow her to. She has done this to you before, not once but on numerous occassions, she will do it again even if you two get back together. I would cut her lose at this point and move on. She does not value your relationship as much you do. Is this someone that you really want to be with in the long run? Are you better off cutting your loses now that in the future? It may be difficult now, but always look at everything that happens as a blessing in disguise and learn from it. There are plenty good women out there both outwardly and inwardly, you just have to seek them and you will find. Wish you the best, hope it gets easier, and it will with time.
Author alxfeny Posted January 22, 2009 Author Posted January 22, 2009 thank you 4 your advice! Belive me...i would let her go...but it's too hard! i'm allways thinking of her...i like being with her! after a f***ed up day at work she is the only one that makes me feel better just by holdind her in my arms untill she falls asleep! she doesn't have to do anything...just be there! when we are together i try not to think of the rough time we are going through...i just hold her in my arms and after she is asleep...i watch her for hours...than i go home and sometimes i cry till i fall asleep! i feel like a litle kid...but i can't help myself...
You'reasian Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 You'll find yourself the right girl, just be patient and allow yourself to move on.
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