kashmir Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 Er, having a big penis ain't the best thing in the world. I've got enough wrong with me that I don't feel arrogant or cocky (hah, cocky...) for saying this, but I'm pretty well-endowed. Over the summer I had sex with this girl and she started bleeding big time. She DEFINITELY wasn't a virgin either, and it wasn't her period. Eventually we had to stop because she said she couldn't take it any more. It was at that point that I realized why the girl I lost my virginity to was crying and telling me to stop...
TwilightSky Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 Hey, if a girl likes big dicks, that is her right. Just like it is my right to like large breasts. Of course, I'll let that slide if she has other "assets," I'm not terribly strict if it is an awesome girl. Which *sigh* seem to be in short supply these days. ...Or maybe it is the crappy, boring town I live in, not sure
Trialbyfire Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 Here's an exercise for women who say that size doesn't matter. Take a 2" pencil and grip it in your hand. Loosen your grip until you stop feeling much friction, when sliding the pencil. Are you honestly this small? If so, you're going to be in pain and a lot of tearing, for an average or even a below average sized man!
Teacher's Pet Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 Ladies... If your man is too small.. Let him in Door #3. Suddenly, you'll find he's just right again. -tp R.I.P. Sam Kinison
BubblyPopcorn Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 It's so stupid that some blokes think their penis size is an important issue - does it really matter in a relationship? In my opinion it's not a major issue in a relationship, it's unimportant as long as you have a good sex life and a good relationship. The old maxim "It's not the size of the tool, but how you use it", probably applies here... I'm a guy, and to be honest, it's not important to me No it is not a major issue and/or requirement, and it's not so much about how he uses "that" per se. There's the overall attraction towards each other, which involves much more between two people then their body parts. Other things are attentiveness, focusing on other areas besides male/female body parts, your physical movements together, being comfortable with each other, etc.
pinkelephant Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 Preference about penis size is like someone saying they prefer blondes over brunettes. Everyone has their preferences when it comes to a partner--sexual or otherwise. Just like how some of you gentlemen have a breast size preference. I'm a girl and I'm not a size queen, but I can honestly say I'd be turned off by a really small wang. It's not all about "the motion in the ocean" or however that saying goes, you also have to look at the thing.
Teacher's Pet Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 It's not all about "the motion in the ocean" or however that saying goes, you also have to look at the thing. Not if it's comin' at ya from behind... -tp ...so we can both watch X-Files
You'reasian Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 I'm a girl and I'm not a size queen, but I can honestly say I'd be turned off by a really small wang. It's not all about "the motion in the ocean" or however that saying goes, you also have to look at the thing. Likewise, alot depends on the woman's anatomy too. Sometimes a little motion in the ocean creates a tidal wave....other times you have to really rock the boat
runner Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 seriously - three inches ??? my condolences to you, sir... alright. just had to get that out. sorry if that made me seem shallow, but to my credit, i've never judged a woman on her cup size. so there !
carhill Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 Who admitted to a three inch penis? I feel utterly voluminous
Konfuzion Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 I dont think penis size is a big issue, I wont ever have one in me and mine is more than big enough. So no issues/complaints here.
PinkKittyKat Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 It's been said, but I'll speak my piece. WARNING: TMI ahead!!!!! RE: breast size Many people compare this to breast size. I find most men like boobies whether they're big or small, as long as they are nicely shaped and have cute nipples. Men just like boobs. And generally, breasts don't directly impact sexual enjoyment, at least not physically. But really, if a man PREFERS large/small breasts aesthetically? That's totally fine. RE:Penis size Penises can be too big or too small in a few ways. I prefer shorter, but fatter penises. Too long, and it hits my cervix painfully, too thin and It doesn't press in that good way so I feel all stretched out. Basically, if it's too thin, I get clitoral stimulation, but I can't get my toe-curling G-spot orgasms. If it's TOO "girthy", it can hurt if I'm not warmed up enough, and going for longer becomes too painful. I honestly don't care if a penis is 4 inches long, as long as it is big around. But not TOO big around. And some girls are so tight, even skinny ones hurt. All this being said, these are my PREFERENCES. I would never break up with a guy over it, or mock him. It would be like breaking up over eye colour or having too many moles. I have dated cut/uncut, long/skinny, short/skinny, long/fat, and short/fat(which is my ideal, and coincidentally my current bf:cool:) It's like Goldilocks, one will come along and it'll be juuuust riiight. But hell, guys, still insecure over penis size? Just get really good at oral sex, believe me, she will not be thinking about your penis.
ColorCube Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 It's so stupid that some blokes think their penis size is an important issue - does it really matter in a relationship? It has always been my opinion that it matters It has also been my opinion that the people who say it doesn't matter have a small penis ( if they are male ) or they have never had a large one ( if they are female ).
Jersey Shortie Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 JerseyShortie, I've always been straight with you, so believe me when I say I generally prefer small to medium size breasts (though all are just great). I think it was Casanova who said the perfect size fills a champagne glass. Although Geishawhelk will probably now inform me he never said any such thing. If Casanova likes breasts that fit into champagne glasses I am going to have to say that he likes unusal shapped breasts.
The Collector Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 If Casanova likes breasts that fit into champagne glasses I am going to have to say that he likes unusal shapped breasts. I think he meant this shape http://weddingcentre-wi.com/shopsite_sc/media/favor_trinkets/large/champagne_glass_favor_trinket_large.jpg , not this http://www.primeeventsrentals.com/images/mouse_over/flute-champagne.jpg I could be wrong.
Author whitburn1986 Posted January 23, 2009 Author Posted January 23, 2009 Preference about penis size is like someone saying they prefer blondes over brunettes. Everyone has their preferences when it comes to a partner--sexual or otherwise. Just like how some of you gentlemen have a breast size preference. True, but most people on a night out or wherever they meet their partner, aren't going to look at the lower appendage of the body. (Well, except for males, who might be attracted to the legs, but that's another thing entirely). Penis size does matter, from what I've seen here, but it's not the be-all and end-all, if everything else is good about the relationship, is it? Breaking up with a guy over that would be the equivalent of us males dumping a girl because her eye colour isn't right, or whatever. Anyway, thank you for your opinions, this thread's been a good read.
Jersey Shortie Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 Oh. Good clarification. I think the other glass is a martini glass. Mine wouldn't even fill one of those up.
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