fral945 Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Do you think your attitude/mindset is conducive to having a successful relationship? Have you ever changed your attitude/mindset (or pieces of it) because you felt it hurt you in interpersonal relationships? I ask because I think my attitude/mindset is a good one to approach the tough aspects of life with, but not so sure it is good when it comes to having success in relationships with women.
Geishawhelk Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Do you think your attitude/mindset is conducive to having a successful relationship? Have you ever changed your attitude/mindset (or pieces of it) because you felt it hurt you in interpersonal relationships? Gosh, yes! I ask because I think my attitude/mindset is a good one to approach the tough aspects of life with, but not so sure it is good when it comes to having success in relationships with women. Shift the attitude from "why does she do this?!" To "Why do I respond in this way?" Sorted.
Author fral945 Posted January 22, 2009 Author Posted January 22, 2009 Shift the attitude from "why does she do this?!" To "Why do I respond in this way?" Sorted. I don't think that is my problem (though admittedly I do say that to myself occasionally ). I think it is more of an attitude that is perceived as a lack of empathy or indifference.
Geishawhelk Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 And when did this start? Find the root. Then address the symptoms.
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