bookieboo2501 Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Hi all. My husband of 12 years has said he is done and is not willing to work it out, I have read the first page of Stop your divorce by Homer Mcdonald, can anyone tell me if it worked for them and would anyone be willing to email me their copy. Thanks I feel desperate but trying not to show it thanks Becca
TrustInYourself Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 I've read it. I'm familiar with the principles. What are you trying to achieve through the information you've read so far?
Navin_R_Johnson Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 I've read it, and I like it. TIY brings up a good question. What do you want? The Homer book gives you tips on ways of thinking to change your perspective from a poor victim to the one in control, from one who needs and begs to one who is confident and happy the way things are, from one who can't live without their ex to one who is happy with themself. It didn't get my ex back, but it changed my approach real quick. Communication improved. The defenses when down on her part. Our daughter benefited from all of this. And pretty soon, the only feelings I had for her were feelings of sorrow. I felt sorry for her. In the end, I realized I'm the luckiest SOB in the world to be where I am right now. And the ex continues to blaze a trail of destruction in most parts of her life. Maybe I wasn't the problem after all? Life is good. And Homer's book did wonders for me in so many ways.
Gunny376 Posted February 6, 2009 Posted February 6, 2009 husbandinthemaking is the resident duty expert, trouble is? You've got to have about 70 posts before you get PM priviledges, and I'm not sure that he has that many. I'm not a big fan of Homer Kennedy. I'm in the stay your Happy @ss single, and become really good at becoming a PUA! Someone leaves you? All that means is that you've got to go and find yourself someone else. What one will abuse? Another can use!
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