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how to know if your partner doesnt love you anymore?


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do u know how to handle in this situation? :eek:

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do u know how to handle in this situation? :eek:

 

Sorry, but you don't have much of a handle on the meaning of love. Nobody "loves" anybody 24/7...except very possibly in the first month or two of infatuation. There are times when partners aren't even thinking of each other. On a daily basis, marrieds often argue and even hate each other...for hours or days at a time. Love ebbs and flows along with everything else in life. If the two work hard enough they can keep it going.

 

Now, what you have to do is explain what you mean by "your partner doesn't love you anymore." If your partner is treating you with unkindness, disrespect, lack of consideration, etc., you simply tell him or her that if those undesirable behaviors don't change you will be out of there. Fact is, if they didn't change and you had to stick around you would fall way out of love anyway.

 

In many cases you don't know that your partner doesn't love you anymore until they ask you for a divorce. Even then, though, they may love you a great deal but for other reasons simply can't be around you. Sometimes we fall in love with people who change and we don't love the new version of them.

 

I hate to complicate this answer...but it's a very simple (yet complex) question for which there is no one answer.

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