BobSacamento Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 So tell us what are your strategies or do you not want to divulge your secrets? How the hell do we tell if your interested? I don't really have issue when the girl strays from the pack. One on one is easy and the rejection is far more palatable. Recently there was a group of 4 girls who were slowly moving closer and closer to me. It's not like it was very crowded. The one who had her back to me would to me would look back at me quickly and look away and gradually move closer. It was to the point I was rubbing elbows with one of them. I thought hey good deal but whenever I would try to make eye contact but it was impossible. Needless to say it was frustrating and I had to leave before I could speak to them. I basically had a 5 minute window to not be a giant P_________Y before I had to leave. I felt like I totally blew it. However, I might be going to a similar gathering in the future where they might be attending again. So I guess my question is - is this a common strategy, if a strategy at all, for women in packs? Do they try to saddle up against a guy they are interested in? I have had this happen once before and just recently connected the dots.
D-Lish Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 I just make eye contact and smile. Yes, saddling up to you is a sign they wanted to make contact. Next time just say something to the one that looks the most approachable. That's your way in to the rest. I used to have a friend that was so ballsy- when we'd be out, she'd go up to packs of attractive guys and just start chatting with them, then bring them over to us. I loved going out with her.
RRyan65 Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 I always only end up talking to girls who a) Come straight up to me and tell me they're interested or b) theres hardcore eye contact and smiling from across the way. For both occasions, the chicks have to be good looking tho. In any case, if a girl or girls get into your personal space (except possibly ordering drinks at a bar, but even that is a very common way interested girls bump into you) when there is anywhere else they can be, 99% of the time means they want to meet you! It's quite the feeling knowing that you attract beautiful women, that it can make you cocky. Or you might be shy. Either way, if you don't talk to them, you'll end up regretting it at the end of the night. A good way to handle the situation is, if the girl rubs up on you, that means that you are within eye contact range usually. Go from eye contact to conversation. If your convo skills are lacking, well you need practice. But if girls are coming up to you, you will get better and better eveytime, trust me. I couldve had 10 times the female interaction I have accumulated until now, had I recognized my potential in my earlier days and not been such a pussy. Good Luck.
KatyS Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Yes, they do want to initiate conversation. A lot of women move in packs, some because they feel safer that way, and other because they're used to it.
Adamagnet Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 I don't really have issue when the girl strays from the pack. One on one is easy and the rejection is far more palatable. This is why you get a good wingman. Attacking from multiple flanks always helps the initiative.
Bri754 Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 I always only end up talking to girls who a) Come straight up to me and tell me they're interested or b) theres hardcore eye contact and smiling from across the way. For both occasions, the chicks have to be good looking tho. In any case, if a girl or girls get into your personal space (except possibly ordering drinks at a bar, but even that is a very common way interested girls bump into you) when there is anywhere else they can be, 99% of the time means they want to meet you! It's quite the feeling knowing that you attract beautiful women, that it can make you cocky. Or you might be shy. Either way, if you don't talk to them, you'll end up regretting it at the end of the night. A good way to handle the situation is, if the girl rubs up on you, that means that you are within eye contact range usually. Go from eye contact to conversation. If your convo skills are lacking, well you need practice. But if girls are coming up to you, you will get better and better eveytime, trust me. I couldve had 10 times the female interaction I have accumulated until now, had I recognized my potential in my earlier days and not been such a pussy. Good Luck. You suck guy.
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