Goatsbreath Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 oh my god, my new roomate was going through some pictures and I was looking and I saw one of me and my ex the first time she ever came to visit me before I moved to be with her. It was a 6 hour trip. We were at the bar and she looked so damn good. Beautiful, like the girl of my dreams.....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr and you could see in her eyes how much she liked me. This is really painful, made me feel sick. She does not look exactly the same at this point, I mean, I guess she dont dress up for me so nice in a long time and shes put on a few pounds but it hurts. Shes not the same person though, i have to remember this.
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Point and laugh at the heffer she is becoming. Damn cow.
Author Goatsbreath Posted January 22, 2009 Author Posted January 22, 2009 haha, I'm trying hard to think the worse. She just turned 30 and you now what happens at 30......im trying to think positive here.
Trialbyfire Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 haha, I'm trying hard to think the worse. She just turned 30 and you now what happens at 30......im trying to think positive here. No, explain what happens at 30.
Author Goatsbreath Posted January 22, 2009 Author Posted January 22, 2009 usually people gain weight after 30 unless you are physically active. Some people skirt through their 20's with such a high metabolism that they don't really need to exercise all that much. 30 seems to be the age that changes and your metabolism decreases. Personally, I couldn't break 140 for the longest time, didn't matter what I had to eat. Not long after I turned 30 I found myself easily gaining weight which I wanted and im now up to 164.
Trialbyfire Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 So while you were painfully anorexic, she still loved you and now, she's larger and you have issues with it.
Author Goatsbreath Posted January 22, 2009 Author Posted January 22, 2009 no she dumped me.....i would take her back in a heartbeat if things were what they were before she left me and started seeing someone else. The only thing I have is spite that maybe her 30s will catch up with her and bite her in her potentially big fat ass. Can I have that dream because the truth is if I don't try to hang onto something negative I'll always be wishing her back into my life.
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Try to control that BPD Trialbyfire, no reason to spit your flames on goat here. Goat, hope you're wearing your firesuit. My dude tyler can get you one if you want... he's a fireman.
Trialbyfire Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 no she dumped me.....i would take her back in a heartbeat if things were what they were before she left me and started seeing someone else. The only thing I have is spite that maybe her 30s will catch up with her and bite her in her potentially big fat ass. Can I have that dream because the truth is if I don't try to hang onto something negative I'll always be wishing her back into my life. Okay, a totally different situation. My apologies. Go ahead, rant away about her fat ass and cellulite loaded saddlebags! Tom, plse take your narcissistic disorder and peddle it somewhere else!
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 LOL. That's awesome. I accuse you of Borderline and you accuse me of Narcissism. How cute. Btw, if I had narcissistic p.d., I wouldn't have defended goat. I'd have joined this topic only to brag about something or another related to ONLY me. Stop peddling disorders without understanding them.
Author Goatsbreath Posted January 22, 2009 Author Posted January 22, 2009 you guys make me laugh, I think we all have some of the traits of Narcissism don't we. I know I have a couple. Right, don't we? Right? hmmm...
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Yes we are all narcissists, the only difference is how pervasive it is. That's when it transforms into a disorder. But we are all narcissists to some degree. If you want to read up (EXTREMELY INTERESTING) about it by someone who HAS IT, then check out Sam Vaknin, Ph.D. Google "Sam Vaknin narcissist". Check out his website. He is very intelligent and talks about how he is a narcissist. You'll see how scary the disorder REALLY is.
Knight_Ctrl Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 I take great comfort in the fact that my last 2 girlfriends before this recent break up BOTH got fat shortly after we broke up. One of em even had a baby....lol
IcemanJB Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 I take great comfort in the fact that my last 2 girlfriends before this recent break up BOTH got fat shortly after we broke up. One of em even had a baby....lol My first girlfriend is now a lesbian. My second girlfriend tried to kill herself (she broke up with me!). My third girlfriend is about 40 lbs heavier than when I was seeing her. ...am I just getting lucky or something? I wonder what will happen with my current ex....lol
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Man Iceman, you're reminiscent of my boy knight, who keeps it real. I HATE people who are all "Oh I wish my ex the best (even though they ripped out my heart)". STFU. You don't really wish anyone good when they broke your trust and ripped out your soul. You want them to get hit by a ****ing semi, you just don't have the balls to admit it. But you two keep it real, just like me. I am not afraid to put myself under fire by being real.
IcemanJB Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 That's why I'm glad you talked me out of my insane idea earlier this week!!! wtf was I thinking... And I use that "my first girlfriend is now a lesbian" as a pickup line. Seriously, you should try it. And goat...my sister has a picture of herself and my ex on her nighstand. So whenever I go over there to help her with something, there's a picture of my ex staring back at me...and my ex looks damn good in it too. I know it sucks dude. But with the crap she's put me through, I'm starting to see her for who she really is...way too freaking immature for me.
Template Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 My first girlfriend is now a lesbian. My second girlfriend tried to kill herself (she broke up with me!). My third girlfriend is about 40 lbs heavier than when I was seeing her. ...am I just getting lucky or something? I wonder what will happen with my current ex....lol haha.. got ya beat 1st gf, was a bikini model, had kids 3 weeks after we broke up w/ a person she doesn't love... not a bikini model anymore, 2nd gf, turned into an ecstacy drug addict, 3rd gr, was perpetually depressed when we were together, and has no job... I hope she never gets a job
You'reasian Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Why do you guys track your ex-es? Considering the nature of your posts, it seems like some of you feel the need to gloat about your ex-es to make yourselves look better. Personally, I hope my ex-es are doing well for themselves, regardless of whom broke up or why.
IcemanJB Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Why do you guys track your ex-es? Considering the nature of your posts, it seems like some of you feel the need to gloat about your ex-es to make yourselves look better. Personally, I hope my ex-es are doing well for themselves, regardless of whom broke up or why. Well the first one I heard through the grapevine. The second one called me new year's eve wanting to "hang out". No. She's unstable. The third one and I are actually friends now. We had dinner last week. I have no feelings for her, so it's all good. My current ex ripped my heart out and I want nothing to do with her. I'm INDIFFERENT as to how my exes are doing; i.e. I couldn't care less. The point we're trying to make is it turns out we're better off without these particular women.
Knight_Ctrl Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Why do you guys track your ex-es? Considering the nature of your posts, it seems like some of you feel the need to gloat about your ex-es to make yourselves look better. Personally, I hope my ex-es are doing well for themselves, regardless of whom broke up or why. I live in a small town man, if ANYTHING happens here I know about it. Especially since I work at like the center for this particular towns activities. I know all, even if I don't want to. Personally I don't give two ****s about what my long time ago exes are up to, but that won't stop me from laughing at it.
Author Goatsbreath Posted January 23, 2009 Author Posted January 23, 2009 Why do you guys track your ex-es? Considering the nature of your posts, it seems like some of you feel the need to gloat about your ex-es to make yourselves look better. Personally, I hope my ex-es are doing well for themselves, regardless of whom broke up or why. my first ex wound up having her house burn down, and lost everything my second ex found her next two boyfriends mysteriously dissapear my third ex became infected with botulism my 4th ex wound up dead I dont know why yourasian, I just always seem to hang around in the background
lonelygurl Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 you really should burn or shred the pics.......you are suppose to be moving on!!!
nature Posted January 23, 2009 Posted January 23, 2009 my first ex wound up having her house burn down, and lost everything my second ex found her next two boyfriends mysteriously dissapear my third ex became infected with botulism my 4th ex wound up dead Holy crap Goat!! What kind of women were you dating??? lol No sh*t you are better off without them!!!!
Author Goatsbreath Posted January 23, 2009 Author Posted January 23, 2009 NATURE... it was a joke that I didn't execute so well perhaps
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