Funerific Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 ...I think women can be pretty rediculous. Let me explain and maybe you can understand why your school and/or workmate crush, despite everything else, WON'T ask you out. I've had women in the past at school and work, send me almost every signal in the book by being flirtatious and otherwise. Yet I don't ask them out and I go about it slow. Maybe I'm too slow, but the alternative is realizing that she is just playing me, leading me on, an attention whore, or whatever else. So I kind of need to see this being something concrete before I risk asking someone out when I could be shot down and having to see her the next day, and everyone I know finds out. That would F'ING SUCK. So yeah I've lost some potentional relationships because I took too long to do anything besides being an awesome person, because I would eventually indirectly ask them out and get blown off...indirectly with womenese of course. It's wierd that women want me to go fast about it? Aren't you all the ones that always want to take it slow? I guess it's ok as long as the guy is one taking the fall if he didn't make the perfect calculations within a short time frame. On the otherhand when I'm meeting women I WON'T see at school or work then I'm very direct and let them know I would like to see them again. This usually works better, but like anything it's not perfect....but who cares at that point, right? So to the women out there flirting your tails off with some guy at work or school wondering why he won't make a move. Be patient. He needs to know you won't blow him off so you should hint at something you would like to do or see later. Maybe he really isn't interested. At least understand the risk he is taking. Guys would normally call this "****ting where you eat". Women have complained that guys have a tendency to mistaken friendliness with interest so knowing that we need to be extra careful and some of us are.
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