10000BC Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Excuse my dating rant...but its been over half a year since I got laid, and almost 2 months since I even kissed a girl....and I'm a dude... These are the types of people I mainly attract, with exceptions of course...: European girls Asian girls Latin girls, from Latin America...not here (I come from an international background, speak multiple languages...English is not my first language) The problem is that relationships with European girls are always so fleeting...because...well...either they want fun and find me exotic cuz I'm a tall and fairly good looking asian guy...or distance spoils it after a while since I don't exactly live close to Europe. Same thing with latin girls... Asian girls hit on me more I guess...but somehow...its always the ones that I don't like. In addition, asian girls around me in college are ON AVERAGE a fair bit more conservative in dating/sex...and I haven't found it worthwhile to go for a platonic relationship. So...yeah... What about local girls? Well, background-wise I think sometimes local girls are turned off by the fact that I don't share the same background story, and the fact my EXs were not from here. At bars? Clubs? Are you serious? Anything serious rarely happens here...and certainly the chances of meeting a girl that matches would be rare indeed. Being Asian doesn't exactly help here either lol...its not like we have the raw sexual image black men do in social situations. So here are my problems... What is the solution? Move away? (Quite possible, depends on my career after college to an extent)... Date people I wouldn't even consider before? (I'm not sure about this one...quite disgusting) Become more...'American'? (Lol...that would turn off the European girls and latin girls for sure...and im speaking from experience) I'm open to others suggestions!
movingonandon Posted January 22, 2009 Posted January 22, 2009 Excuse my dating rant...but its been over half a year since I got laid, and almost 2 months since I even kissed a girl....and I'm a dude... These are the types of people I mainly attract, with exceptions of course...: European girls Asian girls Latin girls, from Latin America...not here (I come from an international background, speak multiple languages...English is not my first language) The problem is that relationships with European girls are always so fleeting...because...well...either they want fun and find me exotic cuz I'm a tall and fairly good looking asian guy...or distance spoils it after a while since I don't exactly live close to Europe. Same thing with latin girls... Asian girls hit on me more I guess...but somehow...its always the ones that I don't like. In addition, asian girls around me in college are ON AVERAGE a fair bit more conservative in dating/sex...and I haven't found it worthwhile to go for a platonic relationship. So...yeah... What about local girls? Well, background-wise I think sometimes local girls are turned off by the fact that I don't share the same background story, and the fact my EXs were not from here. At bars? Clubs? Are you serious? Anything serious rarely happens here...and certainly the chances of meeting a girl that matches would be rare indeed. Being Asian doesn't exactly help here either lol...its not like we have the raw sexual image black men do in social situations. So here are my problems... What is the solution? Move away? (Quite possible, depends on my career after college to an extent)... Date people I wouldn't even consider before? (I'm not sure about this one...quite disgusting) Become more...'American'? (Lol...that would turn off the European girls and latin girls for sure...and im speaking from experience) I'm open to others suggestions! Dude, stick with the asian girls, forget everybody else - they're golden. Also, I think you're making a mistake assuming that they are too conservative when it comes to sex. Sure, their overall exterior is demure and conservative and quiet, but most of them will leave all that stuff at the door. :love: Finally, stop with the self-deprecation and show the locals who's the (triads) boss. Unless you're really way too short or something, you can pull of some mad asian style. Hong-kong bad guys do it best, at least in the movies.
Author 10000BC Posted January 22, 2009 Author Posted January 22, 2009 pshhhh thats not self-deprecation, nor modesty...its quite frankly just how it is at CLUBS and BARs. Period. No, i'm not short...in fact, i'm almost 6'2'' in imperial units. Stick to Asian girls? Hmm...not an option. They're definitely in the pool but I'm not limiting myself to one set of cultures. Ur right that non-conservative ones exist out there...so they're definitely in the pool.
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