gldngirl Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 So, a guy I was seeing briefly dumped me. I was chill about it, we work together so I wasn't able to do NC. But, it's been 2-3 weeks and we've hungout a little (he said he wanted to remain friends). He was texting me, I'd reply, but not immediately and we'd talk at work. I went out of town (2 hours away) this last weekend, he came out to visit me for a day. It was a great time and even though he had initiated the split a few weeks ago, he was acting very relationshippy with me, holding my hand, paying for dinner and drinks, etc. I want to believe he has changed his mind but I'm not sure. I don't have the balls to ask him about it, what his intentions are and the like. I'm trying to play it cool and be relaxed about it, since I think the split was due to me being over eager and him being gun shy. Everything he's doing says "I want you back" to me. But where do I draw the line? We've slept together quite a few times and we both want to be physical, but I've told him that I don't do flings and will only have sex with someone I'm dating. He's awful about returning text messages, which is the most frustrating thing for me. I don't text him very often and I know he doesn't carry his phone with him, or has it on slient a lot. Is it fair this early into something to ask about intentions and being exclusive and to mention how frustrating the lack of returning calls or text messages is? Or should I remain cool about it and see how it pans out? I really like this guy and want it to work between us.
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