cxz214 Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 I don't know what I should do. So I'll try and get to the point. Well there is this girl and I'm going out with her, but she had a bf. She has told me things that their relationship isn't going so well and stuff like that. Anyway the other night her and her bf are breaking up. I think I may have said the dumbest thing, but I was like so is this good for me in a joking kind of matter. Anyway she tells me that she likes me, but 5 yrs is hard to get over and that she is hurting badly and right now she just needs a friend and she will figure the rest out later. So like I said before what should I do? Thanks in advance.
dreamergrl Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 Um yeah... she's going to need time to get over a 5 year relationship. If you really dig her, you could wait, but be careful not to end up as the rebound guy.
Author cxz214 Posted January 21, 2009 Author Posted January 21, 2009 Yeah I know, thats what I was thinking. They've been together for a year and a half, but known each other for 5 i suppose. I would like for this to work out, but I don't really know what I should and shouldn't do.
dreamergrl Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 Don't push her Do be there for her, but avoid friendzoning.
Author cxz214 Posted January 21, 2009 Author Posted January 21, 2009 Ok thanks, but how should i go about avoiding that?
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