Intergalactic Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 well, today my ex boyfriend told me he is planning on making the moves on another girl at his party this weekend. at first i cried. and then i realised i was only crying because i thought i'd never speak to him again, that i wouldn't know him anymore. not because i am still IN LOVE with him! i have been dating other people, and i thought i would be so heartbroken when i found out he had been too, but i wasn't. i can HONESTLY say that i hardly care! it's certainly not stopping me having fun and laughing and enjoying my life. so, approximately 8 months on (i'm not even counting the days anymore), i can truly say progress has been made. even as much as 4 months ago, i thought i would just die if he wanted someone else, the thought of it made me stressed and sleepless and aching, and i was still making "plans" to get back together with him. and now i am able to calmly accept that he is about to start seeing someone else, and to hope he is happy with her. so for all of you who are having a difficult time... just remember that it will pass! “in three words i can sum up everything i've learned about life. it goes on.” robert frost
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