aloha Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 I was out alone one night at a show and this girl asked if i was with anyone and if i wanted to hang out so i ended up driving from bar to bar with her friends. i had zero expectations. at the last bar, we ended up walking to her place, we were both really drunk. we kissed quite nicely on the way back and spent the night in her bed just holding each other and holding hands. Adorable, I know. I left the next morning to walk home to go to work. i went back to her place a few days later and she was all smiles and we talked for a bit. I didn't get her phone number, but i did email her, but she doesn't have a computer and i didn't hear from her in a while so while out 2 weeks later i talked to her at her work, she said she'd see me soon, but didn't want my number. ouch. i have no idea what's going on in her life really, so i guess i'll just take this one on the chin. i really liked her though. I don't plan on making contact with her again, and if i see her again in public again, i'll just let it be. still hurts. Am i right?
Author aloha Posted January 21, 2009 Author Posted January 21, 2009 Thanks for the feedback. I feel like a goof over the whole thing, honestly.
JohnnyBlaze Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 Yeah, you're right. As much as you may not want to, you just have to call that one a strike-out. Don't beat yourself up about it. It happens. Every guy here has been there, done that, and got drunk while wearing the t-shirt. And we'll all do it again...and again...and again.
Author aloha Posted January 24, 2009 Author Posted January 24, 2009 thanks man. this town is small enough that i'll eventually run into her again in a social setting and when i do i'll play it cool. I can take it or leave it. my main concern was whether i caused her any real bother. I'm no creep and i didn't want to leave that impression, but I can't go back and redo it, so i'll just let it be.
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