honey2910 Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 Hi all, Another strange but important question. Is NC required to get over ex why and why not? Hope to see lots of inputs
Frankasy Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 Well it matters what position/role the ex had? If you loved her, than yeah it's pretty much the best way, if you didn't, if you had her for other reasons than nah, NC is not necessary to get over her but it is a good option. Basically what I'm saying is that if your ex wasn't special to you, than you wouldn't have a hard time getting over her and no contact would make everything more easier and quicker but it's not necessary. I go NC with my ex gfs because it feels awkward and kinda embarrassing to talk with my ex about relationships when in the past we were together or I find it strange to shake her hand when I used to kiss her. So personally I use NC not to get over ex gfs but to feel more comfortable. Actually one girl for me was special, was my motive for 5 months and I changed completely cause of her and although it was hard with all those changes, I felt better inside. I lost her on New Years, officially if I can say and during this whole month it has been a torture getting over her. I have been on NC since January the 3rd and at first it was very difficult but eventually the NC rule made me stronger and each day I feel a little better. I hope that helps.
Geishawhelk Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 I suggest you have a quick look over this forum, and see what people say when they break NC. Invariably, it's a dumb thing to do. occasionally, it's good to break no contact, usually to tell the other person - "Will you PLEASE stop contacting me!!"
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