confused6 Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 Sometimes I see someone and I know in an instant that I will just be crazy about them....There is this man that I have seen frequently, never spoken to, just seen him around for about a year and I just knew that I would love him! How can this be? Turns out, got to know him and those first feelings are true and real! How can this be????? Has this ever happened to anyone else?
RichGuy Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 Like teenagers who fall in love with movie stars/singers? Same difference...
Author confused6 Posted January 20, 2009 Author Posted January 20, 2009 Are ya saying I'm a teenager???? I am being serious! It is the strangest thing. It has only happened a couple of times in my lifetime.
Author confused6 Posted January 20, 2009 Author Posted January 20, 2009 BTW, he's really not that good looking....not by my usual standards anyway...that is why this is so strange
Trialbyfire Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 Sure, I've been instantly attracted to different men, then instantly unattracted when they've uttered the first words!
Capricciosa Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 It's called projection. And lust. It has nothing to do with the person and everything to do with you. Have you followed through on any of these things I wonder. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it's improbable.
Author confused6 Posted January 20, 2009 Author Posted January 20, 2009 Yes, did you read all my posts? We have been together and it is EVERYTHING I thought it was. It is amazing! He is EXACTLY as I thought he would be. Now that I think about it...I did know a little about him. I new that he kept to himself and was genuinely a nice guy so maybe that really has a lot to do with it. I have been so tired of being with loud, cocky big mouth men that loved to show off...so maybe since I new he was a quite kind of guy and a good guy, that is what the attraction is about. And like I said, he's really not all that good looking...
d0ll Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 I have experienced this First time was just a HUGE crush & we we're just friends cause I was 14 & he was 17 & just yeah ... Second time .. I made the loser my b/f for 2 years & the Third & hopefully last time I experienced this is NOW & we are currently friends or "talking" Idk but i'm nuts about him! I saw him & just had to get to know him
Author confused6 Posted January 20, 2009 Author Posted January 20, 2009 We talked for about 3 months, been together about 6 months...so close to a year
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