Well Enough Posted September 24, 2003 Posted September 24, 2003 Short summary. We were good friends for a couple of years in highschool. Talked online and on the phone a lot, hung out. When I went to college..I got a girlfriend within the first month. But I still talked to my friend mostly online through out my freshman year. I talked to her even more online AND on the phone during my sophomore year. I broke up with my girlfriend around april..and when i got home in may I started hanging out with my friend nearly everyday. She's pretty popular in the town and we both have a lot of friends, but we hung out exclusively. Movies, going out to eat, just haning at each others houses. After about three weeks of this...she asked me if I liked her. I just danced around it..never really said no. And she continued to ask me periodically for the next 3 weeks or so..at least 5 times. The last time she asked in the middle of a conversation.."***** do you like me?" I said "I cant"...and she repeated immediately.."***** do you like me?"...i said "yes of course, you're a nice person"..you know. and she said "nice answer..".. normally if a someone asks that..it's for a reason...i just passed it off as her being curious. anyway...i spent most of my summer with her exclusively, even though she has a lot of friends, as do i..she hung out with me mostly. -she told me she wanted someone like me -she told me i'm perfect at least 20 times -she always says i'm the greatest man in the world -a few times she said "i think i fell in love with you" for no particular reason..if we're having a good time or i say something funny -when i did something nice for her..she said.."oh my god..i just fell in love with you" -when she was upset..i bought her a stuffed animal..and she told me she always hated stuffed animals...but she loved mine and even sleeps with it every night. -just recently she told me "i love you..the girl that gets you is lucky" -she's visited me 4 times in the 20 days i've been at school and I live 70 minutes away from her. i've never tried to get with her..and anything i've done for her was as a friend... I'm not sure what to think. She's coming down to see me again this weekend..I want to know before then. Is she 100% saying these things because she wants to get with me? Or am I reading wrong? let me know
yes Posted September 24, 2003 Posted September 24, 2003 well, DO you like her?? why did you say "I can't" when she asked you about it?? It definitely sounds like she's interested - you should decide if you are, and have a talk with her. I can't believe she gave you SO many CLEAR indications of really liking you and you're still in doubt. -yes
Author Well Enough Posted September 24, 2003 Author Posted September 24, 2003 At the time she was asking...I was just getting out of a relationship. And yes, everyone I know says she does..but I'm sort of a charmer so they expect it. I realized noone I know is going to tell me that she doesn't want me. I really wanted objective opinions from people I don't know..and I landed here. Right now, I love being her friend..and i'd like to leave well enough alone...Unless she wants more, then I'd give it a shot.
yes Posted September 24, 2003 Posted September 24, 2003 you sound so wishy-washy ... she clearly wants more than just friendship. if you don't, tell her so that she's free. if you do, tell her so that she's glad =) thanks for clarifying though... i had wondered what the guys whom i was dropping huge hints were thinking... i think they were just as wishy-washy as you. -yes
CaterpillarGirl Posted September 25, 2003 Posted September 25, 2003 Yes, she likes you (duh!). So ask her out or tell her point blank that you are not interested in a relationship with her (more than friendship, I mean).
RedneckRomeo Posted September 29, 2003 Posted September 29, 2003 from what you've posted - she's definitely interested. I dont see how you could have doubts with stuff like that happening. I surely wouldnt be doubting it. She wants you... Its your turn to decide what YOU want and do something about it.
subtitled Posted September 29, 2003 Posted September 29, 2003 She might as well hold a sign above her head that says: "I REALLY LIKE YOU PLEASE SAY YOU LIKE ME THE SAME WAY" so yeh - she is in love with you and i agree - it's up to you now, to work out within yourself whether you feel the same.
Recommended Posts