Bells Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 Believe it or not, I got a woman's interest and had been corresponding with her back and forth. During our chats, she mentioned she's not "Entirely" divorced yet (even though her profile says "divorced") Apparently, they've been living apart for 2 years now , kids are all grown, and she's filed for divorced 6 months ago.....but they are just merely working on dividing up their assets...nothing more. Would you see a woman in THIS particular senario? The "Impending" divorce...ALMOST there? Also, if you do go out with separated people, do you hold off on the physical/intimacy and just go out as friends, until the divorce is final? I told her my stand on dating separated women, and she said she did really respect that about me. So what about you guys, would you date a separated person DEPENDING on the situation of hte separation?
Adri Ana Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 One would wait till the official divorce happens to avoid any problematic or confusing situation . Do you think you may trust all she says you ? Do you think she is really abt to divorce ? If you trust her in this,then you may start dating and just know her better till the actual divorce of hers . Still the best option is to date a divorced .
Geishawhelk Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 Well, I think I'd rather have both sides of the issue, but chances are, if it's this far down the road, it's a safe bet..... Any idea why they're divorcing.....? And why - "believe it or not...." Why would we not believe it?
Adri Ana Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 Yes, I guess also that once decided to divorce it will happen already , 2 years of being separated are a serious while . They do not miss their marriage life , they are ready to take this step , and dividing the assets between them also proves they are into it .
Author Bells Posted January 20, 2009 Author Posted January 20, 2009 Well, I think I'd rather have both sides of the issue, but chances are, if it's this far down the road, it's a safe bet..... Any idea why they're divorcing.....? And why - "believe it or not...." Why would we not believe it? Is it important to know why they are divorcing? I could probably entertain a few. Got tired of being married to each other? They outgrew each other? I'm just entertaining the most common reason. And what's a safe bet? I think it's best to take it with a grain of salt, I might still try to get those questions in. I just wouldn't get emotionally involved. The fact they've been apart for so long kind of proves they are serious bout the divorce...they just a couple of legalities to go over before its' final.
prettybaby Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 It's just a piece of paper. She's obviously living her life without him and they're clearly no longer together, so what does it matter?
confused6 Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 Uhh, 6 months to finalize a divorce....sounds like someone is hanging on for some reason. Just an opinion of course. I drug mine out for awhile and then it never really happened. Be careful getting to caught up in this woman.
dreamergrl Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 hmmm, well I do agree if they actually have been living apart for 2 years, and the divorce is in motion, it sounds like it is over. On the other hand, my parents divorced (it went through) and they got back together for a while, then broke apart again. Divorces can be messy
2sure Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 My first husband and I separated but did not divorce for 4-5 years. Just never got around to the paperwork until for future financial reasons we realized we better hurry up. We spoke a couple times a year. I had his last name on my ID for so long I never changed it until I remarried. No kids.
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