ThatNewKid Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 Hi everyone, 1st post, nice forum here i didn't wanna highjack the other thread, so i'll start a new one. me and my girl were together for 5 months, we were wildly attracted to eachother. We broke up a few weeks ago, with the excuse she 'wasn't ready for a relationship.' It was left hazy, but we decided to be friends. Big mistake methinks. i didn't talk to her for those few weeks, met new girls tried to move on. She got in touch with me saying she wants to meet up. so in a a few days we have decided to meet up for coffee. Now if i'm gonna be with this girl, i want it to be in a relationship ( or taking it slow leading into a relationship.) i don't care for friendship, because frankly it would hurt too much. Should i be blunt or subtle about establishing this? and also what are other boundaries that i should lay out, ie, no holding hands, cuddling etc. any tips for moving it towards a relationship? i'm not desperate so thats not an issue, but as i said i need some clearcut rules. thanks guys.
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 20, 2009 Posted January 20, 2009 Umm really this could depend on age, etc. How old are you, and how old is she?
Author ThatNewKid Posted January 21, 2009 Author Posted January 21, 2009 both early 20s. Shes' coming over today to hang out. It's been moved forward. I was gonna call it off, but it's too late now. Those tips would really be appreciated, thank you.
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